Desperate women that support men, what do we think of them? Judging by the title of this post you can get an idea of how I feel about the situation. Keyword: Desperate.

Let me start off by saying I hate when people fall back on gender roles. I believe men can do the dishes and women can mow the lawn. I believe that women can pay for the dates sometimes and that she doesn't have to wait on a man to ask her out. I'm a 21st Century chick HOWEVER since men cannot birth babies I do not see the reasoning behind a woman providing for an able bodied man. I'll make an exception for stay at home dads who help run the home while the career mom does her thing. What I can't do is sit by and act like I condone women taking care of a man when she doesn't have to. Why does she do it? Again, Keyword: Desperate. Usually these types of women know deep down inside that the only way they can keep a man is to pay for him. She's probably been through a lot of failed relationships or no relationships at all. I can also assume that her confidence has to be low, otherwise she would feel she had something other than her money to offer men. 

The problem with this behavior is that it becomes habit. A woman who takes care of a man never really stops there. She's probably taken care of men before or will likely do it again. She doesn't want to be lonely so she does what she needs to do to make him stay. She never truly realizes that if he wants to go, he's going to go whether you know about it or not. Men know what questions to ask to be able to spot a desperate woman, just like women know how to spot a potential sugar daddy. My issue is, what kind of man do you have to be to take money from a woman?

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Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on December 16, 2011 at 9:47am

What kind of man? I think shiftless is the term I use. lol But they usually have the best dinga. Usually. I've heard some women complain about their shiftless negro and he don't put it down in the bedroom. WTF is the point of keeping him? I don't have a problem calling women like that desparate and stupid. Federline probably put it the f** down on Britney and she ain't been right since. lol

Comment by Love is a Losing Game on December 16, 2011 at 10:43am

who is jason trawick?

Comment by Rich Motha Sucka on December 16, 2011 at 5:04pm

her bf for the last 2yrs

Comment by AKa maddie on December 16, 2011 at 9:44pm

I don't know if J LO has low self esteem ...Britney was pretty before Kfat and her crazy trip and she was very emotionally damaged after Timberlake but Britney has money to BURN 

Comment by Nene2 Live on December 16, 2011 at 10:02pm

@AKa what do Brittney being pretty hav to do wit..how KFed whipped that dinga on her. Exactly she is pretty, rich and had her pic of the litter and choose a broke down wanna be rapper-ex bac up dancer who put it DOWN..point blank period. She continues to support him to this day all because of it..trust she's SALTY regardless of how much money she has to burn.Timberlake had nothing to do with her bein clueless to the game~life lesson only!

Comment by Nene2 Live on December 16, 2011 at 10:15pm

I agree wit CC no point of keep'em if ain't put it down and broke..another example of how the dinga has power in these circumstances AKa~Fantasia. It happens more often than u think(be careful).

Comment by SoLuscious on July 14, 2013 at 11:28pm
I've always thought jlo has low self esteem, which is why she can't EVER be alone.
Comment by Timah on July 14, 2013 at 11:38pm
I agree @SoLuscious
Comment by BeenAddicted2Retail on July 15, 2013 at 10:54am

What is the difference in men doing it if women do it? My personal opinion is get it how you live.

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