Comment by Holly-Would on December 28, 2008 at 7:53pm

That's what usually happens esp with real ballers (meaning people with real money) they settle down with the person who will complain the least...

I have unconditional love for one person... And that is myself... Some things rank higher on my list of things I can take or deal with...

But I have very real and strong feelings for others...

I have a high tolerance for things also... I care more about intent...

Life is tricky, but I will not put up with blantant disrespect

Comment by Baller Alert on December 28, 2008 at 8:13pm

As we talked about it in depth...he said he did his thing but never bought it home. She did hear about things he did but never caught him in the act. He said she became blind to things and would act like it didn't happen. I guess as long as she was in the big house she was cool. He claims it was unconditional love...I call it reeling him in for the kill.

Comment by makinithappen on December 28, 2008 at 8:20pm

I have only had unconditional love for man and he was my first love.

I think once you truly get your heart broken you lose the ability to blindly/unconditionally love someone.

Just my opinion.

Comment by OfficialGroupie on December 28, 2008 at 9:04pm

I would never stand to be disrepected. But some women don't care as long as they have the money to go along with the bs. Hell, alot of women who date 9 to 5 negros put up with the bs so you might as well get a house out of it instead of just a broken heart. If a woman allows it, a man will do it. If a woman doesn't care about herself, then no one will. I think he married her cause he owed it to her for putting up with all his bs. She pretty much earned it. But there is a thin line between unconditional love and stupidity. 12 years?!?!?...hell to the no!

Comment by Seductress on December 28, 2008 at 9:13pm

I agree with makinithappen I think we have unconditional love for our first real love but after that, (most of us anyway) we learn better.
I also agree with boss that it is very easy to look the other way as long as you're being respected and you're sitting pretty.
That by no means is unconditional love though - that's playing it smart. I know that if he loses it all and he's still up to all his old bs ways, I'm out.

The only people you should love unconditionally are pretty much your close, immediate family: parents, children, siblings.

Comment by Sugar on December 28, 2008 at 9:47pm

I believe that true love is unconditional.......I agree with MakeinitHappen as far as loving blindly after your hearts get broken.

Diamond I hear you tell um why you mad son !! LMAO

Comment by Mz. Nikki on December 28, 2008 at 10:40pm

12 years of being disrespected is a loooooong time. I gave up after 4 yrs, because I love my freedom, jail is not for me. That's where I would be if I stayed. So, I put up the deuce and left. I'm sure 12 yr realized that his woman loved him unconditionally, and took for granted she wasn't going anywhere. I guess I don't have love unconditional, because there is too much penis walking around for me to tolerate BS from one for over a decade.

Comment by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on December 28, 2008 at 10:51pm

When I love it is unconditional...I still love every man that I have ever loved...I may not like them, but I still love them for the same reasons I love them when we were together...the only love I have to give is unconditional

As far as stay through the disrespect, that has nothing to do with unconditional love...unconditional love simply means that no matter what someone does I won't stop loving them...but I also love myself and my son unconditionally and we trump any man...

Comment by Holly-Would on December 28, 2008 at 10:51pm

When I say real money I mean multi millions, you see those wives 90% of them are quiet even on the red carpet with a mic in their faces... NO MAN wants a woman that is going to be nagging him, even if he is in the wrong, we have all heard the saying, the strong moves quiet and the weak start riots...

I'm only making observations... Don't shoot the messenger cause the chick burning down houses and flipping the script can contract HIV from her man just the same... I don't believe that is a fair assessment...

I don't make run on statements, when there is a space that usually means I have left the thought in the last paragraph... It always tickles me when people think that if a chick had her own money that means she won't be a fool just the same as the chick getting her life handed to her...

If it's "love" you want and need everyday, a person will justify whatever they need to... No one can tell you if your means justify your ends...

Comment by LioNeSs on December 28, 2008 at 11:49pm

ummm question, is the baller's initials STM? if so i know who you're talking about. all i have to say is i can tolerate alot b/c i know i dish out alot of ish too so i dont really care as long as he married her in the end.

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