Are you planning to head out to Houston next weekend with your girls and you feel a little guilty about the man you're leaving at home? Well don't be! Allow me to be the devil on your shoulder and make you feel better about the weekend of shenanigans you are about to enjoy.

Let's start with the obvious, your boo is at home and what he don't know won't hurt him. Face it, you work hard 5 or 6 days a week, you have to listen to your clients b******* only to come home and deal with a man who doesn't show you any attention, any affection and more often than not, any respect. You deserve this day with your girls, wild out and have a ball!

Honestly, it's only one day out of the whole year. Chances are he's out there getting it in too! Now how would you feel if you flew all the way to Houston, felt guilty the entire time, only to find out your man was bumpin and grinding the whole time you were away anyway! You don't want to live your life thinking "what if" so you might as well go out and enjoy it. You only have one life to live!

If you don't go, you'll just end up sitting around and listening to all of your friends talk about all the fun they had and all the celebrities they met (and smashed) and you'll sit there envious wishing you had gone because you spent your weekend alone doing absolutely nothing. I guess the point I'm trying to make is....

Girl, get out there and do some ho s*** honey! Just don't tell your man what you're doing All Star Weekend :)

For a list of All Star Wekeend parties visit the Baller Alert Events Page: www.balleralert.com/events