For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Recently I had the chance to catch up with someone who no stranger to BallerAlert model Sheneka Adams. Being a beautiful model there must be a lot of things that she is faced with like, rumors about who she is dating. In our sit down we discuss her relationship and sex life, along with tips for women looking to step their sex game up in the bedroom. She also shared with me a little bit about her fashion sense, and her advice to young girls looking to pursue a career modeling. So grab a glass of wine and find out about the real Sheneka Adams.
BA: Since the last time that we have talked what are something’s that you have been doing?
S: I’ve really been working on my acting; I’m trying to break into that. Being a model is kind of short lived so it’s about time to chase after those Hollywood checks. So that’s basically what I’ve been doing in acting class getting my acting skills in tack.
BA: Last time we talk we also talked about you staying health, eating right and getting in the gym; and a lot of people started to use your ideas. For instance like eating in portions instead of just having one or two meals a day. I actually used them myself and got heavy in the gym; are there any other tips that you would like to share?
S: Not really I mean everybody tries to look at it like its some type of secret. No its not! You just have to get in the gym and eat right by cutting out some of your favorite foods, drink lots of water have a lot of sex and everything will be good. (Laughs)
BA: (Laughs) Talking about sex a lot of people wonder like how is your relationship life?
S: It’s good. Really good!
BA: Sex being one of the main components in a relationship; what would say would be your freak number?
BA: Saying it would be a twenty-five what would say would make you a twenty-five?
S: I mean there is nothing that I won’t try once, so I will try anything once and if I like it I will continue to do it. A lot of people won’t but I will; I do stuff that is outside of my comfort zone a lot of times.
BA: What advice would you give to someone that may be struggling to climb out side of that box when it comes to sex?
S: A lot of things aren’t for everybody a lot of times, that’s why a lot of people stay virgins into their 40 or the day they die. If you’re not comfortable with doing something, your just not comfortable there nothing that will change that. Even though there are some people that are and that is why they have health relationships. And that’s just how I feel about it.
BA: Alongside that a lot people have seen your XXL forums and they have questions. One was what should someone do if they’re in a relationship and the sex really isn’t that good?
S: It’s a lot things that you can do, if someone is wack in bed then they’re just wack in bed and that is just my take on it. Everybody always wants a secret on how to do this and how to do that, but to be honest if you’re wack then you’re just wack. (Laughs) But to spice up the sex in your relationship; you can try having sex in different places. Because who really just wants to have sex in a bed all the time it’s like boring, go different places have fun.
BA: Now what would you say is the craziest place you’ve ever had sex?
S: A Hospital.
BA: Wow (Laughs) I can definitely see that being crazy.
S: Well I would take that back that was crazy. But I remember one time I had sex in front of my mom. (Laughs) I know it sounds weird, but don’t jump to conclusions. What happen was I was down stairs and my friend was over and I was sitting on top of him. I had a cover over me and she comes down stairs and she sits across from us and she’s just talking while my skirt is down and I was sitting on top of him. It was the most awkward moment ever; she doesn’t know it to this day so I hope she doesn’t read this. (Laughs)
BA: Now a way from sex a lot of people read the blogs about the people that you’re supposedly dated, I know the last time we spoke you put the rumors to rest about whom people thought you’ve dated. What are your thoughts when you read the blogs and hear those things?
S: I don’t really pay attention to it. Rumors are rumors they’re there for a reason, there to appear to people who are simple minded. I feel if you weren’t there how can you say it’s true, I didn’t come out and say it was true. But I really don’t pay attention to that stuff it doesn’t matter to me.
BA: We also discuss before that you’re working on a book and you said it want be a tell all. What are some of the things that you’re going to put into your book?
S: It’s definitely going to be about a lot of things that I have done and experienced. Just my life a lot people are interested in me, I might as well just write a book and give it to them first hand instead hearing it from someone else.
BA: Modeling and making appearances at clubs has to be busy; how do you balance all of the?
S: It’s not that hard it’s a blessing; I mean who wouldn’t want to go to a club and get paid to look cute and take pictures. It’s not really hard to balance, if I could do it for the rest of my life I would because it’s an easy job.
BA: Being a model a lot of girls admire you; what would be your advice that you give to them?
S: I was going to talk about that honestly I have a personal email address where people can email me and ask me questions about things. A lot of girls email me asking me “How can I get into modeling?’’ Honestly I don’t want to be blunt about it and say you don’t need to do this, but I just think the video model world is dead. Its like strive to be something else, I mean I’ve done it and I liked it but it’s not where it used to be. Girls don’t get paid three thousand dollars to appear in video its kind like either you’re going to do for free or you’re not. That’s why you don’t see known video girls in videos any more. So in a situation like that I would tell them just strive to be something else in entertainment; maybe a producer, movie director something like that not just a model it’s kind of short lived.
BA: Even for girls that still like totally have their set on doing what you’ve done, what advice would give them?
S: It’s kind of hard to give someone some advice, because it isn’t just a site or a person that I could just tell you to talk to. It happens for some people and then it just doesn’t happen for all, some people get on the cover of King Magazine and Smooth Magazine. It has to be something about you, you have to be confident in yourself, and you have to know your worth you have to have a lot of self-respect and be very strong minded. If you’re not you will get ate alive in this business because there are a lot of people who will sale you a dream. A lot of these girls end up doing porn. You have to find your direction then you can ask me for help.
BA: If people follow you on Twitter than they know fashion is a big thing for you. You’re always dress really nice and you have an excellent shoe collection. So a typical night how do you come up with your outfits?
S: Honestly I have to give a lot of credit to my friend he kind of started to show me a lot of things, and I took it from there. Honestly it kind like what can I do to get these people to talk about me, what can I do to make the blogs or could I wear this dress and then sale in on eBay for a hundred more than what’s it worth. I like to be different not just the normal put on some red bottoms, some wet seal jeans with a bakers top. I shop at thrift stores and boutiques I don’t wear five thousand dollar shoes and two thousand dollar purses I mean I have a pair. I want to appeal to people that understand me and say I can shop where she shops at.
BA: What are something’s you have coming up?
S: My cover for King Magazine I will be shooting this month; also my Show Magazine cover coming and I also did a feature on the BET show The Game that I’m excited about. I’m just perfecting my acting craft hopefully you will see me on the big screen one day.
You can follow her on Twitter @Sheneka_Adams