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There's nothing worse than the disrespectful female friend. This is the female that was friends with your man before you came into the picture that somehow feels entitled to your man because she came first. She has no tact when it comes to respecting your relationship and if he dare ignores her, she throws a fit. This girl has a problem and your man better put her in check.
Often times men are far too clueless to see that their female friend is acting out for attention. Half the time they're not smart enough to see that the same female friend that is acting out, has been throwing signs that she had feelings for him for some time now. Men just don't get it. Women hardly go through this same scenario because we respect our men enough to let our friends know that our man's feelings come first. Well, maybe not first, but they're pretty important. Men on the other hand don't know how to juggle female friends and their new girl and end up in a very tough position when the friend over steps her boundaries and p***** the new girl off.
The problem with your boo's homegirl is that women tend to be catty and territorial. If we were here first, we want to come first. Women can't accept that another woman could possibly take our place. Look at the way Jim Jones' mother acts around Chrissy. She's a mother that can never be replaced by any woman but is still very territorial over her son. Imagine a homegirl every time a new boo comes around? She's afraid, she's insecure and in a few cases she's secretly in love.
Fellas, this is where it is your responsibility to get everything in check. Failure to do so will result in a relationship that is less than pleasant. You must establish boundaries with your female friend. The key is to let her know that there isn't a reason to feel insecure and that she can never be replaced. At the same time you want to inform her that her behavior is unacceptable and is going to put a strain on your friendship. You don't have to force the two to become friends, but it helps to put the offer on the table. You never know, she might like the new girl.
Comment by blackfujones on December 5, 2011 at 9:09am lol...sounds like my chic best friend and my ex lol. My chic-buddy before my relationship was my running buddy on the weekends. She chased money just like me so we were instantly cool. My ex always thought we were effing and never liked her. My buddy was respectful tho, she fell ALLL THE WAY BACK. We stopped hanging out all the time, just spoke sparingly to check on each other etc. She showed up to my wedding and my ex family threw darts her way all night but she was still cool with it. Fast forward now with my new relationship, shes doing the same thing. Fell ALL THE WAY BACK and checks on me sparingly..thas my homey
Comment by Creative Bee on December 5, 2011 at 10:37am ugh there is one chick that is just stoopid, they grew up together and she is like his little sister. She talks crap about me full of assumptions however never met me, she found and requested me on fb, I'd didn't accept her so she is talking even more crap. My fiance told her he won't be talking to her until she learns to respect his relationship. She thinks she is protective but I think it's just pure jealousy. Seriously some girls just need to get a clue. My best male friend is married and im never in their business.
Comment by Dark~N~Lovely on December 5, 2011 at 12:33pm My husband has this one female friend that we often hang out together and I KNOW she's an opportunist! Once my husband and I got into an arguement and he went to hang out with her and her friend. OOOOHHHH HELL NAWL!!! Then had the nerve to tell me where he was as if it was nothing wrong with it! I told him that thats totally disrespectful to go hang out with hoes, buying them drinks, etc...then next thing you know her homegirl will be trying to holla. Its cool if WE ALL together, but no mam! I had to check her ass too! Most of the time them hoes be looking at the situation like "Damn that could've, should've, would've been Me" Lol!!
Comment by Sheli on December 5, 2011 at 3:38pm I was the "female best friend" until this new bucket-head b**** came along. I think she watched that video Lynxx posted b/c one day out the blue his ass was like you'll always be my #1, but we can't hang alone like we use to anymore, now he only speaks to me through smoke signals now, LOL. I miss my homie :-(
But I'm happy for him (not really, I just say that because I'm suppose to)
I am the female best friend to a guy that has a revolving door of females, so it's hard to fall back when I know your replacement is being ordered! lol Naw, but his BM wanted to be my friend and I'm like bish don't be trying to be strategic cuz u think imma run my mouth. I know where my loyalties lie. But I would not date or be in a relationship with my male friend cuz I know all his baggage/dirt. Aint nothing but homie luv for him.
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