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Somewhere females who don’t have anything to be desired started to feel like every other chick envies them, is after what she has and is hating on her. Allow me to say, this is not the case and that whole way of thinking is getting old.
These young ladies always think that someone is talking about them. They always think their name is “in someone’s mouth”. They’ve never heard any of this for themselves, they basically go off of the assumption. Sadly, there name hardly comes up in conversation when they’re in the room let alone behind their backs.
These young ladies always think that they have something you want. But how could you have something I want when you don’t have anything you want? You barely have a pot to piss in, your life is in shambles and deep down you’re either dumber than a bag of rocks or have little to no self-esteem. The only way some of these women can feel good about themselves is to tell themselves that others want to be them or want what they have. But they don’t have anything anyone truly finds desirable. They should get over this way of thinking so they can focus on bettering themselves. No one is jealous, no one is envious, they may be a little concerned though.
Ladies, you don’t have haters and stop saying that you need to get more haters. This is the most immature way of thinking. You’ll never truly be able to be happy and trust people because you live your life screaming out about all the imaginary haters you have. Maybe it’s you. Maybe it’s all in your head and because you think you have a gang of people who don’t approve of you, you act like a certain way. Maybe it’s your actions that lead people to eventually not like you. You’re hollering about having so many haters, yet you could never, without a shadow of doubt, point a single hater out. You’ve never confronted them and they’ve never said anything to you. Is it possible that the “hate” is all in your head and no one is really talking about you, envying you or hating on you. Maybe it’s just you. So yeah, girl hush, no one is “hating” on you!
This is so true! I know you wrote this many years ago, but I agree. Sometimes people are indeed “haters” (it can’t be denied).
But I know somebody like the types of women you describe. She believes that I’m jealous of her and that I’m a “hater”.
She needs a reality check, because I don’t hate on anybody. My problem with her has always been more about her attitude.
Not her looks (she is pretty in her own way, but there are prettier women out there). Not her popularity (we are adults…who cares about that after high school?)
Not her material items, because I care more about having a simple life than I do about showing off and trying to impress others.
Her friends tell her that anyone who dislikes her is “just jealous”. Of what, though? Her obesity? Her basic looks?
Again, she’s not ugly but this is somebody who thinks she is on the same level as Halle Berry (just as an example).
Just delusional and crazy. There are plenty of girls with the same look…medium brown complexion and long wavy hair.
Pretty, but nothing special. I focus more on the way a person acts anyway, rather than how they look or what they have.
I think some people WISH that somebody was hating or jealous. It makes them feel better to believe that.
They don’t realize that no one likes a conceited person with a bad attitude.