For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
I spotted this over at The Frisky and I actually thought it had some great points. Ladies, we all know how important it is to hold your Baller's attention so if you want to give him the most mind blowing orgasm he's ever experienced, I suggest you take a few notes. If you have any tips you feel like sharing, leave a comment!
1. Know When It’s Coming: Get to know your partner and learn the tell-tale signs. Is there a twitch? A sudden stiffening? Heavier breathing? If you can learn to tell when his orgasm is coming ‘round the bend, you’ll be able to make it more awesome when it happens.
2. Talk To Him: One thing that can make a guy’s orgasm kind of a bummer? Feeling like it happened too suddenly and it wasn’t that big a deal when it did. Tell that you really want it to happen. Right now. Let him know how hot it is for you when he comes. Just knowing that might help him to really let go in a way he normally wouldn’t.
3. Tell Him Where: Let me be perfectly clear and say that you absolutely do not have to emulate porn in order to satisfy your guy. But if you’re comfortable with it (or even turned on by it), inviting him to come somewhere on you is … really nice.
Why? It’s hard to say, but here’s my theory: Many men still have residual insecurities from their adolescence. We worry that women think our junk (and what comes out of it) kind of… gross. And it’s embarrassing.
So, maybe telling us that you want it on you helps us to put those fears aside and makes us feel like sexy, confident, grown men. In any case, we like it.
If you actually are grossed out by the prospect, or just aren’t comfortable with it, that’s fine. Just don’t do it. Telling him that you want it inside you (or inside a condom, more likely, but the sentiment is what’s important) will do the trick, too.
4. Grab His Butt: Yep. When you’re having intercourse and he’s about to finish, grab him by the butt and pull him in. It’s a way to say “I really want it,” without saying anything at all.
5. Nipples: Not all guys have particularly sensitive nipples (not all women do either, from what I understand), but some do. And some really do. Flicking his nipples with your tongue or fingers or squeezing them gently right before he comes can heighten the sensation and result in more of a full-body orgasm.
6. Draw It Out (But Not Too Much): The longer it takes, the better it is. Unless it takes forever. The happy medium here is to try to get a guy close to coming as quickly as you can, then tease him once he’s there to extend the experience.
I've actually practiced a few of these steps before. One common denominator in this is "interest". Men like to know that you are interested and enjoying the act as much, if not more than they are. All these steps show excitement. Grabbing him, drawing him in, talking to him, telling him what you want, it shows him that your focus is 100% on what's going down at that very moment. Any good man is satisfied from satisfying you.
Comment by Sheli on March 8, 2013 at 11:10am I have a horribly funny, wrong, embarrassing story to share concerning the "release" and where it goes. I'll be back after the comments.
Comment by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on March 8, 2013 at 11:17am LOl..I had "stuff" ended up in my hair, on my face, on my headboard, and it seemed like it would not stop...lol. I thought I was going to die I was so grossed out.





I let my ex do it on my stomach once...thats mess ended up all over my boobs NEVER AGAIN! lol
Good List.
Ladies Multi-task try to incorporate 2 or 3 of the tips at the top in to 1 move! LOL
When he is about to c**, grab his toes and pull them back, kind of opposite of the toes curling, extend them out.
If the man can try holding back several times, it makes the final orgasm more intense. If he feels like he's about to c**, stop and ask him to hold it for as long as he can, then start back up, if he feels the urge again ask him to hold it, once he orgasms it will be great for him.
Reading sex books is also good, you find out body parts to stimulate to make for harder orgasms ect.
Comment by Bonita on March 8, 2013 at 1:57pm
Comment by mavsbabe41 on March 8, 2013 at 5:58pm Just reading this got me thinking very bad thoughts....dammit!
Comment by Denise on March 8, 2013 at 8:02pm anywhere but my hair, lol
Comment by AllyNWonderland on March 9, 2013 at 10:12pm
Comment by blackfujones on March 9, 2013 at 10:39pm interesting
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