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Hater
By Maya Angelou

A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.

They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!

When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...

That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed...

It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?

You never know what people have gone through to get what they have...

The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story...

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!

We've all got some haters among us!

Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb
(if he / she isn't about the right thing)
e) Raise your children without both parents being
in the home

Haters can't stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be
on our side.

How do you handle your undercover haters?
You can handle these haters by:

1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are
*(VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not
mean having a job. You can have a job and still
be unfulfilled.

A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.

3. By remembering what you have is by divine
prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at me...Look at Who is in charge of me...'

Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't become a HATER!

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her.'

Maya Angelou


The definition of a true friend is someone who is there for you when he or she would rather be anywhere else.

Tags: bush, friends, hater, ninjaz, real

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17 Comments

Siren Comment by Siren on October 31, 2008 at 10:02am
Good blog Sugar...too bad some people don't realize they are always talking about haters when in fact they are the haters themselves!
OUT OF CONTROL Comment by OUT OF CONTROL on October 31, 2008 at 10:19am
Nice! I am still searching for my purpose on this earth. I really think it's something involving people, me changing people, influencing people. Something to do with people!

I really want to do something in Fashion.....help the Bammas of the world....I dunno.....Something with people!
Cookie Pie Comment by Cookie Pie on October 31, 2008 at 10:19am
Loved it ! Great post Sug !!!!!
Black_celebutante Comment by Black_celebutante on October 31, 2008 at 10:21am
I love this!
this is getting copied and pasted and sent around so people can know the true meaning!
Sugar Comment by Sugar on October 31, 2008 at 10:22am
LMAO @ Bammas...OOC you a truly a people person.
Sugar Dick Comment by Sugar Dick on October 31, 2008 at 10:38am
I THINK IM A HATER. I HATE THE FACT MY PEOPLE HAVE LOST THIER NATIVE TOUNGE, CULTURE, AND LAND. I HATE WE DONT EVEN TRY TO THINK FOR OUR SELVES ANYMORE. I HATE THAT MY PEOPLE HAVE NOW BECOME CONTENT WITH BEING FREE WHEN THEY DIE, INSTEAD OF FIGHTING FOR FREEDOM WHILE THEY ARE ALIVE AND BREATHING. I HATE THAT MY PEOPLE WHERE FREED FROM PHYSICAL SLAVERY ONLY TO BE CAPTURED INTO AN ECONOMIC SLAVERY. I HATE THAT MY PEOPLE TEACH THIER CHILDREN TO FEAR GOD, BEFORE THEY WHERE SLAVES THEY NEVER HAD A BIBLE. I HATE THAT IM A HATER, BUT IF I DONT HATE ON MY PEOPLE WHO WILL?
Cookie Pie Comment by Cookie Pie on October 31, 2008 at 10:42am
Preach Reverend Sugar Dick !!!!!
Sugar Comment by Sugar on October 31, 2008 at 10:47am
Amen ...Sugar Dick....You have a way with words you must get a lot of pussy....LMAO
C*u*t*e* Comment by C*u*t*e* on October 31, 2008 at 12:31pm
That is some great advice
Holly-Would Comment by Holly-Would on October 31, 2008 at 12:44pm
The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story...

If only ppl took their own advice...

Oh Sugar thanks for this blog...I had an amazing experience yesterday!

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