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Hater
By Maya Angelou

A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.

They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!

When you make your mark, you will always attract some haters...

That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed...

It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?

You never know what people have gone through to get what they have...

The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story...

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!

We've all got some haters among us!

Some people envy you because you can:
a) Have a relationship with God
b) Light up a room when you walk in
c) Start your own business
d) Tell a man / woman to hit the curb
(if he / she isn't about the right thing)
e) Raise your children without both parents being
in the home

Haters can't stand to see you happy.
Haters will never want to see you succeed.
Most of our haters are people who are supposed to be
on our side.

How do you handle your undercover haters?
You can handle these haters by:

1. Knowing who you are & who your true friends are
*(VERY IMPORTANT!!)

2. Having a purpose to your life: Purpose does not
mean having a job. You can have a job and still
be unfulfilled.

A purpose is having a clear sense of what God has called you to be. Your purpose is not defined by what others think about you.

3. By remembering what you have is by divine
prerogative and not human manipulation.

Fulfill your dreams! You only have one life to live...when its your time to leave this earth, you 'want' to be able to say, 'I've lived my life and fulfilled 'my' dreams,... Now I'm ready to go HOME!

When God gives you favor, you can tell your haters, 'Don't look at me...Look at Who is in charge of me...'

Watch out for Haters...BUT most of all don't become a HATER!

'A woman's heart should be so hidden in Christ that a man should have to seek Him first to find her.'

Maya Angelou


The definition of a true friend is someone who is there for you when he or she would rather be anywhere else.

Tags: bush, friends, hater, ninjaz, real

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Holly-Would Comment by Holly-Would on October 31, 2008 at 12:49pm
SUGAR DICK- I hold up my afro pick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Le Coquette Comment by Le Coquette on October 31, 2008 at 2:09pm
Me too @ HW. I keep thinking about it.... Another delayed reaction. LOL

"That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed..."

.....so true....
Stephbaby Comment by Stephbaby on October 31, 2008 at 3:38pm
Great bolg! Maya is the biggest gangsta of all!!
CLEM Comment by CLEM on October 31, 2008 at 5:22pm
Poco Bush Ninja Chipotle HOLLA..LOL
Cougar $pice Comment by Cougar $pice on November 1, 2008 at 5:16pm
Sugar, I LOVE THIS........thanks for posting! This in a nutshell speaks volumes:

That's why you have to be careful with whom you share your blessings and your dreams, because some folk can't handle seeing you blessed...

It's dangerous to be like somebody else... If God wanted you to be like somebody else, He would have given you what He gave them! Right?

You never know what people have gone through to get what they have...

The problem I have with haters is that they see my glory, but they don't know my story...

If the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, you can rest assured that the water bill is higher there too!
Cougar $pice Comment by Cougar $pice on November 1, 2008 at 5:16pm
OOC you always crack me up!! lmao
Miss Stress Comment by Miss Stress on April 7, 2009 at 2:03pm
WOW... ALOT OF PEOPLE NEED TO READ THIS SLOWLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANKS IT IS HELPFUL..GO MAYA

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