Heartless.. Numero Uno
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" In the night I hear him talk, the coldest story ever told....Somewhere far along this road he lost his soul to a woman so heartless"
In part 1 were are gong to discuss heartless factors regarding men and the woman that left them "heartless" etc.. and how it effects your relationship with them, and how it changes their outlook and perpective. This is straight out of my head no pen or paper (forgive me).
And so this blog begins...........It seem as though men ( some woman) want it all with minimal or work. Kinda like getting a promotion without doing any work smh (where they do that at ??). Relationships (friends , family, intimate) is like a car proper upkeep is necessary to insure a safe ride (crazy people out here) and the longevidity of the veichle. People are becoming more and more selfish (especially men) consumed in personal gain ( what have you done for me lately Eddie). The problem is people pleasers (such as myself) usually get the shit end of the stick (hence in the end becoming heartless).
Why is it that after a woman treats the guy bad, cheats, etc etc... They automatically shut down? This happens to us women all the time and we "dust it off and try again".... (you know the song). Then they become controlling, a list of demands, and the famous "My way or the highway" attitude. I can hear the cars coming to a holt because "I'm rolling down the highway".... (another great song). I say "heartless" because it doesn't matter what you want walks, movies, backrubs, etc.. (those lil bastards) They ignore what you need, and focus on them selves. (as if you are going to put up with being ignored forever) and I say "forever" in my mexican voice lol. All because some women left them betrayed etc..The best part is that they have the nerve to loose their minds when "they " think you are messing with someone else (as if they can't understand why). Disclaimer: I'm speaking for women such as myself some of yall hoes cheat you know them ninjaz are right in that case lol.
Everyday is a new day, and might be your last. Communication is vital !!! Express to these heartless MF'ers that your name is NOT Susan. We all come with do's and don't from previous relationships. I believe everyone should start with 100 % (I loved those teachers lol). Just because you last "wifey" (and I use the term loosely) moved and left you heartless doesn't mean I will. Given the chance ...there are good women (last of a dying breed *loadb*) left read to love and restore that block of ice you call a heart (Dr. Freeze). Give "us" ( L.O.A.D.B) a chance. Treat us as individuals you'll be surprised at the results. After all, women have bounced back from this for years (toughen up)........Otherwise No Touchy !!! lol (I love that cartoon)
Luv yaz,
SUG *
Question : Have any of you came across a man like this ? Men have you ever experienced this and why ? How did you get over it ?
P.S. Thanks Chipotle
Tags: heartless, relationships, sugar
9 Comments
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Comment by hk on December 15, 2008 at 9:58pm - you either ride it out, or you move on. i want to be w/my man, so I'm there for him no matter what.
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Comment by Cougar $pice on December 15, 2008 at 10:22pm - We all had at some point met someone who wanted us to pay for what some other chick did to them in the past. If you really like the person and want to work things out, it's worth staying, communicate and find common ground. Some people are worth working things out with. But keep your radar on and if he's not giving any signs of letting go of the past, it time to BOUNCE.
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Comment by Miss Vogue on December 15, 2008 at 10:47pm - this is very true, I dated a guy once that was recently cheated on and dumped by his ex, and he took it out on me.. he was one of the biggest jerks i ever met.... luckily i came into my senses and dumped him...
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Comment by Cougar $pice on December 15, 2008 at 11:09pm
- Lady Diamond, God 1st........ that's our strength!!!! Passed down from previous generations.
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Comment by CLEM on December 16, 2008 at 4:24am -
Great post once again Chipotle!
I will get back to you on this post in a minute.
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Comment by Sugar on December 16, 2008 at 10:11am - @ HK ....No disrepect but what does that have to do with what I just said ??? In other words you are willing to tolerate your man blaming you for other womens mistakes ? You said you will be there no matter what right? Or is that within reason?
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Comment by Stephbaby on December 16, 2008 at 10:36am - I love this blog, great job Sug! This reminds me of that song by Musiq called "Previous Cats" which states "Im not the blame for the pain that was caused by previous cats, you gotta love me for me". Thanx for putting out the thoughts for the lovers at heart!
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Comment by Sugar on December 16, 2008 at 4:04pm
- @ Gia ....You can turn the music off by simply muting your volume on your computer or turning your speakers in the off direction. Thanks
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Comment by Boss/MadamBA on December 17, 2008 at 12:36pm - Good post...I am heartless. Trying to shake it off...
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