Heartless Pt Deux
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"In the the night I hear him talk the coldest story ever told.........Somewhere far along this road he lost his soul to a woman so heartless !!! ....How could you be so heartless ???..."
And this is where the blog begins......As I'm typing this I don't know where to begin, This blog is straight from the head about something I think about often and feel often.....Is it me or all the HEARTLESS women get the mens heart? Now some people (especially men ) forget about then pain that they cause during your time with them. they forget about lying, cheating , text messages, walks in the mall etc... (laughing to myself in sarcasim) I mean seriously. I'm listening to these words that his (Kanye) is saying and I feel his pain because I've felt like this numerous times. In College I dated this guy that as soo fucked up to me (smh) I didn't understand how someone that can say that they love you can be so heartless. People will often ask " I don't know what you see in so and so " but the truth is even if you tell people the good and the bad, they only remember the bad. ( I'm not like that) They only remember about the fight you had about a text message you seen or the fact that he lives far and it's not a real relationship ( to who you ??? , because how can you speak for me bitch). Some nights I sit home and just reflect on my life, where I've been, where I want to go, and most importanly where I came from (sigh woo sah). Bitches see my glory but don't know my story. Shit I make it look good. Even if i'm broke I make that shit look good ( fuck that ). I see these less desereving (in my opinion) Just using men and men using women. When will the cycle end. For example this guy name "Mike" said to me he can't find a good women. He went out with a friend of mine tried to hit it after the second date ( Mutha fucker dinner doesn't consitute me having sex wit ya ass!!) I mean we are grown if I wanted to fuck you I would. How could you want a good woman when you keep fucking with hoes or chicks that only want you for your money ? If you wanted a good woman you could have one but that's NOT what they want.Why leave your good woman too play with a bad girl? (keyword girl) I guess the price of pussy went down because women a forgetting or never known thier worth. It's sad because a man "fucks them check right to the next" ( what song was that from ?). So after they fuck you and pay your little bills (it aint tricking if you got it). Your ass gotta move out and beg for shit. (when do you grow up and take life seriously). Maybe i'm just a tight ass ( let me tell you why I'm mad). I see men talk about these women but that's who they cheat with, spend the most time with. Someone said some thing once I will never forget and I quote " a ni**a spend more time with the side chick than his girl" ( where they do that at ?!!) How long can you keep at it with these heartles women( while you have a good woman at home waiting for you trying to give you a home). These men aren"t stable, and my ass needs some stablity. How are you like (enter age here) and don't know what you want? Or is it some people have to run free like wild horses. I know after giving my heart to fucked up heartless men...A piece of me went with them, like my innocence disappeared. It's like they cheat on you and cheat you out of your thing that made you extra special. ( Not yet bitter but yet semi heartless). After thinking about this for a while I'm like why the fuck am I sitting home ? ( is being faithful played out? ) I guess if you are not married everything is far game ? ( I mean I do check single on my w-4) Is it fair to live like your married when the other person lives single? What happened to commitment? I've been hurt, neglected, ignored etc....I'm tired of fake busy ass people that have to fuck around but have no time for you. I read something so true " Don't make someone a priority when your just their option" ( I guess I got it twisted lol) I am applying that now ( If someone is worth having you they will prove it and make and effort) It will not be you waiting ( shit what are they doing when you are sitting there looking STUUPP lol) Like Kanye says...."wait a couple months and you go see, you gonna find nobody better than me" Why play games ? In the end you end up lonely... I guess I'm turning ......................HEARTLESS.
P.S. I believe in love and I don't always base my blog off soley my opinions these are things I observed and what people I know go thru. I believe there are exceptions to the rule.(12)
My Question is : Do these heartless people make you turn heartless after all the trails and tribulations?
Any of you turning heartless?
Luv Yaz,
SUG*
And this is where the blog begins......As I'm typing this I don't know where to begin, This blog is straight from the head about something I think about often and feel often.....Is it me or all the HEARTLESS women get the mens heart? Now some people (especially men ) forget about then pain that they cause during your time with them. they forget about lying, cheating , text messages, walks in the mall etc... (laughing to myself in sarcasim) I mean seriously. I'm listening to these words that his (Kanye) is saying and I feel his pain because I've felt like this numerous times. In College I dated this guy that as soo fucked up to me (smh) I didn't understand how someone that can say that they love you can be so heartless. People will often ask " I don't know what you see in so and so " but the truth is even if you tell people the good and the bad, they only remember the bad. ( I'm not like that) They only remember about the fight you had about a text message you seen or the fact that he lives far and it's not a real relationship ( to who you ??? , because how can you speak for me bitch). Some nights I sit home and just reflect on my life, where I've been, where I want to go, and most importanly where I came from (sigh woo sah). Bitches see my glory but don't know my story. Shit I make it look good. Even if i'm broke I make that shit look good ( fuck that ). I see these less desereving (in my opinion) Just using men and men using women. When will the cycle end. For example this guy name "Mike" said to me he can't find a good women. He went out with a friend of mine tried to hit it after the second date ( Mutha fucker dinner doesn't consitute me having sex wit ya ass!!) I mean we are grown if I wanted to fuck you I would. How could you want a good woman when you keep fucking with hoes or chicks that only want you for your money ? If you wanted a good woman you could have one but that's NOT what they want.Why leave your good woman too play with a bad girl? (keyword girl) I guess the price of pussy went down because women a forgetting or never known thier worth. It's sad because a man "fucks them check right to the next" ( what song was that from ?). So after they fuck you and pay your little bills (it aint tricking if you got it). Your ass gotta move out and beg for shit. (when do you grow up and take life seriously). Maybe i'm just a tight ass ( let me tell you why I'm mad). I see men talk about these women but that's who they cheat with, spend the most time with. Someone said some thing once I will never forget and I quote " a ni**a spend more time with the side chick than his girl" ( where they do that at ?!!) How long can you keep at it with these heartles women( while you have a good woman at home waiting for you trying to give you a home). These men aren"t stable, and my ass needs some stablity. How are you like (enter age here) and don't know what you want? Or is it some people have to run free like wild horses. I know after giving my heart to fucked up heartless men...A piece of me went with them, like my innocence disappeared. It's like they cheat on you and cheat you out of your thing that made you extra special. ( Not yet bitter but yet semi heartless). After thinking about this for a while I'm like why the fuck am I sitting home ? ( is being faithful played out? ) I guess if you are not married everything is far game ? ( I mean I do check single on my w-4) Is it fair to live like your married when the other person lives single? What happened to commitment? I've been hurt, neglected, ignored etc....I'm tired of fake busy ass people that have to fuck around but have no time for you. I read something so true " Don't make someone a priority when your just their option" ( I guess I got it twisted lol) I am applying that now ( If someone is worth having you they will prove it and make and effort) It will not be you waiting ( shit what are they doing when you are sitting there looking STUUPP lol) Like Kanye says...."wait a couple months and you go see, you gonna find nobody better than me" Why play games ? In the end you end up lonely... I guess I'm turning ......................HEARTLESS.
P.S. I believe in love and I don't always base my blog off soley my opinions these are things I observed and what people I know go thru. I believe there are exceptions to the rule.(12)
My Question is : Do these heartless people make you turn heartless after all the trails and tribulations?
Any of you turning heartless?
Luv Yaz,
SUG*
Tags: heartbreak, heartless, love, relationships, sug
26 Comments
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Comment by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on January 26, 2009 at 7:16pm - Hmmmm, deep revelations girl.
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Comment by Hotter on January 26, 2009 at 8:49pm - I am past that heartless point!!!! Sorry but it is what it is. One day I will be blessed with loved again. But for now "Imma do me"
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Comment by S0 F L Y Y on January 26, 2009 at 10:21pm -
I feel you whohotterthanme.
The signature on my text messages reads: </3 heartless
I have more to say on this... so I will be back but right now I'm supposed to be doing grad work. =(
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Comment by $o $oft N $o $weet on January 27, 2009 at 6:56am -
Been there...I think the majority of us all have been there.....
" Don't make someone a priority when your just their option".....no truer words have been written......that's why I maintain many options......if you behave like you couldn't care less if the particular man was in your life, they'll bend over backwards for you, but the moment you slip and and show how much you care it's like, in the words of Eddie Murphy in Raw, "I got this mother f*cker now".....I've learned that you have to be somewhat heartless....I'm old school as well, believing that my man is supposed to lead so I tend to be somewhat submissive (clutch the pearls)....I can not stand a weak a** man that I can walk all over.... so like WHTM & SO Flyy, Imma do me, remaining independent & heartless until the right one comes along......
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Comment by Sugar on January 27, 2009 at 7:34am - @ whohotterthsnme....I hear you. There is someone out there for all of us.
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Comment by Sugar on January 27, 2009 at 7:37am
- @ So Soft N So Sweet lmao @ Raw because what Eddie Murphy said is so true. I believe I can be submissive if he is leading the proper way. Don't think you can do anything and I must still go along with it or look the other way. I will not submit to someone still fighting their own demons, because then how can you really purely lead?
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Comment by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on January 27, 2009 at 9:02am -
at some point in cycle of heartbreak you have to look at you and find what's wrong with you...I see a lot of my friens with these issues and they keep asking why - ITS YOU, not them...you choose them, you stayed with them, you gave them your heart, you over looked the signs - you, not them...I look at my friends who've suffered very little (like myself) and its the same thing - ITS YOU
Women and men go into relationships with the hurt still very real from their last and they continue to let it build and snowball...I tend to have a lot of time between relationships because I believing in healing and learning first, and it takes me awhile to say this man is worthy of my heart...more women need to learn to love with their heads and then their hearts...and some men should not be loved with your heart, period - listen to Jay...
I will never become heartless because I won't allow any man to take away my energy...
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Comment by california on January 27, 2009 at 9:33am - good reflections...this is how i feel. number one, if you are in tune, god gives you signs when things are not right, however alot people, myself included overlooks the signs at times or for the moment..number 2 men are very, very tricky..to me the only leverage a woman really has is pu$$y, it may sound old fashion, but the longer you can withstain from sex, and literally make the guy your friend, (which takes longer than 2-3months,) the more complicated it is for him to cheat on you.."Charlie" made a very good point as well.HEALING, folks jump from one relationship to the next, instead of taking time to regroup, and release. men and women will lie, tell you what you want to hear until their last breath, to get what they want. $o $oft, is right as well, continue to do you, when with a man and his A$$ will bend over backwards, do triple sow cows and everything else, i guess men just like that "chase". in deed it does work, when you enter a relationship you have to have a PLAN(and no, its not trapping the man). when you are dating, you should also be thinking about marriage(in my view). fucking just to be fcuking is silly and very dangerous nowadays. get yourself together, be very selectful, PRAY TO GOD, and when the time is right you will have your man...you attract, what you are in some essence.
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Comment by Seductress on January 27, 2009 at 9:49am - I would consider myself a heartless chick but Im not exactly sure why? I am the type that likes to have a man around always, when I find myself getting attached to a man I usually go with the flow for a little while but usually he shows his ass and then I'm like alright I see how you are, so I'm gonna be heartless about the situ. So I sit back, relax, collect the good, ignore the bad, and do me. Right now I dont think there's any man out there who deserves my heart so therefore Im not giving my heart out to anyone at the moment. I am in a relationship with a man at the moment but its not really going to go any further than where it is at the moment and Im okay with that. Im heartless because 1.) men want what they cant have 2.) there are just some things that arent right about him and things that are so right about him, so I figure why throw the baby out with the bathwater 3.) Being heartless prevents you from being hurt 4.)By being heartless it is acknowledging the fact that like you said I check single when I file my taxes. I am single because Im not married so if other opportunities (better ones) come my way I would want to explore them. Im not saying its right to be heartless actually its probably wrong but Im young, Im learning, Im doing me, so whatever.
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Comment by Ali Sin (formerly No Name Cutie) on January 27, 2009 at 10:55am -
Nope, not heartless, because I still believe in love... BUT, I am much more selective about who I choose to date. Any little sign of something wrong and I'm out! Plus I've been so spoiled (not financially) by my boo that no one I've met come close to being half the man he is. So no, I'm not heartless, just done with the BS!
( If someone is worth having you they will prove it and make and effort)
I really like this cause it's exactly how I feel. If a guy doesn't feel the need to pursue me properly, then he isn't worth me.
I'll add more this evening when I get out of class, but this is just a bit of what I'm feeling right now...
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