Here's Why Strip Clubs Are Good For The Relationship

Believe it or not, there are still a lot of women who are too prude to ever step foot in a strip club. I for one believe that strip clubs make for a great date night. Maybe not a first date, but a great opportunity for you to not only get to know your mate but become closer in the process. Allow me to explain..

Men always fear that if they take their girl to the strip club that she is going to nag, complain and be grossed out. No one wants to hear Debbie Downer say "eww" to everything and screw up her face every time a girl in a thong walks by. No one wants to hear Debbie Downer criticize how Peaches looks in a string bikini and how Bubbles has lopsided boobs. It's a turn off. This is why your man goes out with his boys and leaves you home, you are dry. Why not be the girl your man wasn't expecting you to be for once? Why not have fun?

Use the strip club as a way to prove to your man that you are not a prude and you can have a little fun. On a random night, suggest that you guys go on a night out on the town. Dinner, Drinks, all that good stuff, but when he's ready to go home and call it a night, make that final suggestion -- the strip club. His eyes will widen, he'll be a little confused, maybe even wonder if you have something up your sleeve, but 9 times out of 10, he'll go.

Once you guys have entered the strip club, hold your hand out and ask him for some ones. You taking initiative is going to be a turn on for him. He'll see that you are probably more interested in being here than he is and he'll be all for it. Get a couple of drinks in him and pick the baddest chick in the building. Buy your man a dance and ENJOY IT! Rub on his leg while she's twerking it for him, let him know that she's getting him up but when you get home, you'll be putting it down. If you want to really turn him on, buy a dance for yourself, hit the stage, make it rain, just have a great time. That's all he wants to see is that you are comfortable and having a great time. Keep the chit chat and complaining to a minimum. Come out of the shell he thought he had and be the girl he had no idea you were. 

What will this little experience teach him about your relationship? It will teach him that you are selfless, you know how to let loose and have a little fun and you don't mind stepping out of your comfort zone with him in mind. It will also get you some awesome sex afterwords. He'll feel comfortable having you around. If he can have you in a room full of naked women and still be focused on you, you've won. Now go out and support the naked hustle!

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Comment by Mac Maine on December 13, 2012 at 10:45am

I support this message... Def shows you selfless and that you trust him!

 

And once we leave the strip club all we can think about is getting you home and knocking the bottom out that pu**y...

Comment by Ashley Flowers on December 13, 2012 at 12:20pm
So Agreed!!!! My man and I are going for my birthday well he doesn't know
Comment by Babydoll on December 13, 2012 at 2:14pm

Women still have to do the most to please a dude. Will he be cool if you had some dudes peen in your face? Doubt it. But we as women should be selfless, comfortable and a down ass bish & be OK with another woman p*ssy, titties & ass in our mans face . If you are into that, awesome, but woman that aren't, are not prudes or selfish.

If the dude was a f*** buddy, then hell yes. My man that I am in a committed relationship with? Nope. But that is JUST ME.

Comment by luvsmoochez on December 13, 2012 at 2:24pm

I agree with Babydoll. I have done this with side nigs but I wouldn't do this with my man. I am definitely not a prude he can roll with his boys I aint trippn, but I don't want to see a chick all up on my man.

Comment by Brittani smith on December 13, 2012 at 3:28pm
I agree with the blog your man wants to see you have fun an be different dispite who's around... Female who are comfortable with their sexuality won't mind going to the strip club... At the end the night he comin home with you anyways besides maybe I can't get some of the ladies to teach me how to do some moves for my man..
Comment by Lauren Towler on December 13, 2012 at 4:19pm
I for one don't have a problem with going with my man to a strip club, it's actually really fun! It's not for the insecure though, I must say. Having a woman bounce her boobs on his head took some getting used to.. But I felt powerful honestly. Nothing against strippers, but I felt in control & sexy being able to tell them what to do in front of my man. Might be a little weird lol but hey it's the truth & it may turn y'all up as a couple. It worked for me ;)
Comment by Bonita on December 13, 2012 at 4:35pm

I go to the strip club regularly so he won't be surprised..lol and no am not into women. One of the best kept secrets u meet alot of men/ballers at the strip club.

Comment by The Missus on December 13, 2012 at 5:21pm

Me and the hubby have been a couple of times. Its fun to be in the environment with him because he watches me so closely to see my reaction, so i tip and all that when the chick deserves it. Lap dances are a no no though, thats too much.

Comment by Babydoll on December 13, 2012 at 11:14pm

To each it's own Brittani, but there are other ways to show your are a fun chick and being comfortable with your sexuality does not equate being comfortable in a strip club. That doesn't even make sense. But to each it's own.

Comment by Danyelle on December 14, 2012 at 3:15am
Me and this guy I'm talking to are going for my bday now if me and him were in a relationship I would've just bought a pole and but it in the living room lol screw the club he got his own personal stripper lol but we not there so the club will do

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