For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Believe it or not, there are still a lot of women who are too prude to ever step foot in a strip club. I for one believe that strip clubs make for a great date night. Maybe not a first date, but a great opportunity for you to not only get to know your mate but become closer in the process. Allow me to explain..
Men always fear that if they take their girl to the strip club that she is going to nag, complain and be grossed out. No one wants to hear Debbie Downer say "eww" to everything and screw up her face every time a girl in a thong walks by. No one wants to hear Debbie Downer criticize how Peaches looks in a string bikini and how Bubbles has lopsided boobs. It's a turn off. This is why your man goes out with his boys and leaves you home, you are dry. Why not be the girl your man wasn't expecting you to be for once? Why not have fun?
Use the strip club as a way to prove to your man that you are not a prude and you can have a little fun. On a random night, suggest that you guys go on a night out on the town. Dinner, Drinks, all that good stuff, but when he's ready to go home and call it a night, make that final suggestion -- the strip club. His eyes will widen, he'll be a little confused, maybe even wonder if you have something up your sleeve, but 9 times out of 10, he'll go.
Once you guys have entered the strip club, hold your hand out and ask him for some ones. You taking initiative is going to be a turn on for him. He'll see that you are probably more interested in being here than he is and he'll be all for it. Get a couple of drinks in him and pick the baddest chick in the building. Buy your man a dance and ENJOY IT! Rub on his leg while she's twerking it for him, let him know that she's getting him up but when you get home, you'll be putting it down. If you want to really turn him on, buy a dance for yourself, hit the stage, make it rain, just have a great time. That's all he wants to see is that you are comfortable and having a great time. Keep the chit chat and complaining to a minimum. Come out of the shell he thought he had and be the girl he had no idea you were.
What will this little experience teach him about your relationship? It will teach him that you are selfless, you know how to let loose and have a little fun and you don't mind stepping out of your comfort zone with him in mind. It will also get you some awesome sex afterwords. He'll feel comfortable having you around. If he can have you in a room full of naked women and still be focused on you, you've won. Now go out and support the naked hustle!