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His Boy Hates You For No Reason…Jealous, Gay?
The closer and closer you get to a guy, the more likely you'll have to deal with this problem, his homeboys. Now if you're lucky, his homeboys will be accepting of you and welcome you in as an extended part of their brotherhood. Every now and then however, you get the homeboy that feels you are all bad no matter what you do. You're either changing his homie for the worse, controlling him or taking him away from his boys. Why does your man's homie have a problem with you? Is he jealous? Gay?
Let's assume he's jealous. What could your man's boy have to be jealous about? Well there are a few things. Guys are very confusing yet simple creatures. Who they are around their friends is never the same as who he is around you. Although he's affectionate and loving towards you, according to his friends he's the biggest party animal out of the whole crew. When his two worlds collide it's very different to keep up the facade so what normally happens is he chooses his girl...and that makes his boys angry! Unfortunately this is when they begin to think he has changed, when in fact he's just showing them who he was around you the entire time.
Another reason his boys may be jealous is because you're giving them a good reason to be. Some women (I'm guilty of it at times) want our men to spend so much time with us that we forget that he has friends and family that want to be around him just as much as we do. We demand so much "quality time" from our man that we've taken him away from the others that care about him. It's a selfish trait that we have. We mean well, but could you blame his boys if they get a little upset?
Now enough of that! Let's assume homie is gay. That would explain why he's all in his emotions right? If your man's homeboy is showing the protective girlfriend trait, chances are he wants to do more than just play a little flag football with your boo. Here are a few scenarios that may expose homie for being h***-sexual...
** If you're spending quality time with your boo and his boy keeps texting him...That's jealousy to a new level and you need to tell your man to check his friend.
** If your man's homie makes sly remarks towards you and has even called you out your name.... He is a little more infatuated than you think.
** If homie has ever started rumors about you or told your man a lies about you...He has female characteristics and if your man entertains this, so does he!
So if you're going through this situation now, and your boo's boy is throwing shade, is he just jealous or is he gay?
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Comment by JustMe on December 6, 2010 at 9:46pm -
Could be jealousy but some of them ninjas are just plain gay
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Comment by DiamondsNPearls on December 6, 2010 at 10:51pm -
You never know nowadays w/the abundance of guys on the DL. Just be aware at all times
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Comment by Tony M. Vreeland on December 7, 2010 at 8:32am -
bring me around i can help to see if hes gay !
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Comment by Baller Alert on December 7, 2010 at 11:39am -
lol@tony
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Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on December 8, 2010 at 12:54pm -
Tony do you work on commission or charge a flat fee? lol
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Comment by Pamela on December 8, 2010 at 2:51pm -
Don't forget the HATER...lol. His boy could be jealous that you didn't get up with him b/c he wanted to holla so now he will try to talk down about you like you not all that knowing damn well if you liked "HIM" he would think your the HEAD Itchbay.....BEWARE...... I know this type of homeboy exist. Trust
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Comment by Slim G on February 8, 2013 at 4:26pm
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Nice post! Some men just face separation anxiety when they see their homeboys are growing up or even doing better than them in the "wifey" department. Some men just want to party and run around and get puss all their lives and can't stand for a women to come in between that aspect of the relationship that they have. Especially if the guy is really feeling the woman. Some guys arguments are valid, some women try to control their mans social life in which I can understand why you would have a disgruntled homeboy. But I can't understand why he wouldn't like the female "no apparent reason". I'll chalk it up as jealousy.
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Comment by Babydoll on February 8, 2013 at 4:42pm -
@ Pamela, that it's it girl. I was hated on so bad by my exes best friend, that him and I became for real enemies. It was crazy! Finally, he didn't come around anymore. But he hated me for the simple fact that I s****** on his GF's whole existence, and you know that weird competition between dudes. They gotta have the better girl, job, clothes etc...
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Comment by Rad on February 9, 2013 at 11:21am -
I can't stand my man's best friend and he can't stand my ass either. We've never been blatantly disrespectful to each other, but I know he's been trying to break us up for years. He's just useless, lazy, immature, angry, and dumb. He's literally the exact opposite of my BF but my BF loves him and is constantly looking out for him. I just don't get it, most women would've dropped a friend like that years ago.
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