It’s said that a woman knows within the first minute of meeting a man if he ever has a chance of sleeping with her. Nothing is worse than meeting a guy who gets you moist just by his physical presence… until he does something to f*** up his chances of ever f****** you!

1. Moving too slow

Being shy and coy is sweet and everything, but please leave it to the one emitting estrogen. If I wanted to date at the speed of a fifth grader, I would just date one (well, not really but you get my point)! First time a guy and a girl hang out, it should be chill, nothing too serious should happen. Second time and so on, some progression should be made.

I was talking to a guy who told my friend he was really feeling me, etc. We hang out a couple of times in the summer, lose touch then reconnect in the winter. He’s literally a nervous mess when we’re alone
(mind you, he’s a baller so I know getting girls is not a problem) so I feel like I have to make the first move- I hate being the aggressor. Only 'groping' occurs though he asks for more. Long story short, he keeps asking when we’re going to hang out again but never makes a real effort. I can take you not being interested, but if you say you are but don't make a move, I got bored- so I had to move on. He lost his chance of getting all up in my guts… and now I’m questioning his preference *side eye*

2. Having the helmet syndrome

Nothing dries my panties up more than an idiot. I’ve tried to look past it and just look at the physical but thoughts of the baller getting hit too many times in the head just ruins all the romanticism.

I met the guy of my dreams- tall, dark, handsome, and a baller. Country boy with a beautiful body, his face was gorgeous, and he kept his business private. He was like my prize and I got too excited. He could
not hold a conversation at the simplest form. I wish him the best though, I’m sure he’ll keep some woman entertained….

3. Arrogance

Cocky is sexy as hell, but having a big ego without being “too big, too wide, too strong, it won’t fit…” is just calling to get your ass thrown under the bus!

Fortunately I’m kinder than it may appear lol so I’ve kept his deficiency to myself.

Ladies, what are your strikes that change your mind about giving it up to a guy?