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For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
HOW TO BE SUBMISSIVE FOR YOUR BALLER
Before folks start frowning, understand that this is not for ALL women. Just a core group of women who want to be completely owned and dominated. There is a subculture of women who are living like this everyday. It's not about catching anybody out there, or popping off or being dramatic. It's simply a quiet, kept life that has completely ridden you of your own identity and replaced with a fresh, new one. One, where you look in the mirror and you can't even recognize your old self. The self that used to shrivel amongst the giants and is now living amongst the giants. This new self, is one that is created by your baller. He instructs you on how to act, talk, eat, dress, walk, etc. He takes care of you.
So, here are some tips. Can you do?
1. You must be a strong woman with a clear concept of what you want out of life
2. Trusting and obeying your man should be a sign of pride
3. He must be everything to you, and you to him; you should make him happy, his happiness is yours; he is defined intimately and emotionally by you
4. If he says you are beautiful like a gem, then that is what you are
5. If he says you are his pet, his slut, his whore, then you are that and be as dirty as he wants you to be
6. Your mind is his to explore and expand as only as he can
7. You keep NO secrets from him
8. You learn only what he wants to tell and teach you
9. You only feel and experience while he spends his time, gifts and energy freely on you
10. Only give yourself to a man who has the strength to handle this; You have to choose wisely because if you choose the wrong baller this can be a mentally crippling relationship; It should be a baller who is very skilled in dominant/submissive roles and won't take it for granted.
You’ll always feel his presence no matter where you are. Anybody ever been in this type of relationship? Not abusive, but a real dominant/submissive partnership. I answered a letter from a reader who is torn between this. See my answer with more details on my blog at "I Want To Be A Submissive Woman."
Smooches!
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Comment by Holly-Would on September 22, 2008 at 11:13am -
Thanks for posting this MRSBIG.....
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Comment by Holly-Would on September 22, 2008 at 11:21am
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lol CP
Very few, but some men deserve this....if he treats you like a Queen, you treat him like a King....men and women have different ideas about how they want to be "showered"...
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Comment by Baller Alert on September 22, 2008 at 11:21am -
Mmmmm
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Comment by she-who-rocks on September 22, 2008 at 11:23am -
I have heard Bey loves being submissive for her man because she is southern and likes a strong man. That being said it has to go both ways. If it is done right the man really treasures you as his woman. That being said most men I come across these days don't understand what they are supposed to return.
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Comment by Le Coquette on September 22, 2008 at 11:28am -
I think with Jay and Bey it's different because she has a lucrative career in her own right. she has/had a life and money aside from him. If he drops her, she is still good. I do believe it has to go both ways and it has to be a man who understands his role in it and not take advantage.
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Comment by Holly-Would on September 22, 2008 at 11:40am
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@ CP brains are an asset to the woman in love.....
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Comment by Holly-Would on September 22, 2008 at 11:44am
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Someone just said that to me the other day, and I told him not in my case....my dad is cool and all, but I don't want a man like him.... First off his zodiac sign is too damn sensitive for me....lol
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Comment by Holly-Would on September 22, 2008 at 11:45am
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CP.... ;)
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Comment by MRSBIG on September 22, 2008 at 12:09pm -
@Cookie a brainless slave "not" if this is done right it can be a very powerful relationship for both
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Comment by MRSBIG on September 22, 2008 at 12:10pm
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@ those who said it takes a particular man, that is VERY true, as I said in my blog, you can't make a man accept your submission, he has to be naturally inclined to be in this kind of relationship....its complicated...LOL
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