For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Before folks start frowning, understand that this is not for ALL women. Just a core group of women who want to be completely owned and dominated. There is a subculture of women who are living like this everyday. It's not about catching anybody out there, or popping off or being dramatic. It's simply a quiet, kept life that has completely ridden you of your own identity and replaced with a fresh, new one. One, where you look in the mirror and you can't even recognize your old self. The self that used to shrivel amongst the giants and is now living amongst the giants. This new self, is one that is created by your baller. He instructs you on how to act, talk, eat, dress, walk, etc. He takes care of you.
So, here are some tips. Can you do?
1. You must be a strong woman with a clear concept of what you want out of life
2. Trusting and obeying your man should be a sign of pride
3. He must be everything to you, and you to him; you should make him happy, his happiness is yours; he is defined intimately and emotionally by you
4. If he says you are beautiful like a gem, then that is what you are
5. If he says you are his pet, his slut, his whore, then you are that and be as dirty as he wants you to be
6. Your mind is his to explore and expand as only as he can
7. You keep NO secrets from him
8. You learn only what he wants to tell and teach you
9. You only feel and experience while he spends his time, gifts and energy freely on you
10. Only give yourself to a man who has the strength to handle this; You have to choose wisely because if you choose the wrong baller this can be a mentally crippling relationship; It should be a baller who is very skilled in dominant/submissive roles and won't take it for granted.
You’ll always feel his presence no matter where you are. Anybody ever been in this type of relationship? Not abusive, but a real dominant/submissive partnership. I answered a letter from a reader who is torn between this. See my answer with more details on my blog at "I Want To Be A Submissive Woman."