What's one thing most men say they want out of a woman? They want her submissive. Well, submissive and quiet -- but mainly submissive. Now, look at the history of women who are in serious relationships with Ballers? Most of these women are members of the "Get Your Ass Cheated On And Stay Quiet About It" Club and you know what? It works for them. The quieter you keep, the more rewards you reap. Don't believe me? Ask Vanessa Bryant. 

Let's be honest, you have Vanessa Bryant, Kim Porter, and countless other women who watch their famous men get approached by groupies daily. In public, they never complain. In fact, they act as if it's not happening. For that they are awarded with their all expense paid lavish lifestyle. The complaining woman however, get's replaced and left trying to collect back child support. Sure, they don't have to deal with being disrespected but they're not living it up like they used to either. It's a catch 22.

When you're in a relationship, a real relationship, with a Baller you have to be aware of the lifestyle that you're getting yourself into. It is then that you decide what stance you'll take on infidelity. Are you dominant or are you a doormat? The dominant woman is likely to maintain her respect but maybe not the man. The doormat maintains the man but likely not the respect. Are you the type that says it's okay to cheat as long as he doesn't bring it to you or are you the type who feels that cheating is totally out of the question? Discover the woman you are, because you can't play both sides of the fence.

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Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on June 25, 2012 at 10:03am

Short and sweet! lol

Comment by Baller Alert on June 25, 2012 at 11:39am

It just paid off for Amare folks.. she been with him through the public affair with Ciara. She just got the 8 carat ring.

Comment by Siren on June 25, 2012 at 11:44am

Whether it pays to be the doormat depends on your price... some women have a price where an actual $ amount is enough and others have a price of respect being paid/given. You have to decide yours.

Comment by l8dy-c on June 25, 2012 at 2:43pm
Some men do this samething for women. One of ballers told me about this and it true. That's why I always say women have self esteem issues because they be the man ones not see this.
Comment by PeachSoda_ on June 25, 2012 at 3:42pm

As long as he ain't disrespectful wit it.. like bringing her all up in our house and to events wit him n s***.. like (love n hip hop atl..) ijs..

Comment by blackfujones on June 25, 2012 at 4:02pm

-this should be interesting...bc ive said this to women all the time. You either gotta play the game or dont play.

Comment by blackfujones on June 25, 2012 at 4:04pm

@shawty..you say that now,but after awhile lets face it....women get tired of that s***. Just look at shaq and michael jordan. Everybody around my house knew him and scottie where f****** my friends twin sisters and so did his wife. After so long she got tired of it too..Funny thing is she ended up getting that check and spending it on a ninja who worked for comcast lol

Comment by Baller Alert on June 25, 2012 at 4:20pm

I know a girl who just got married to her long term boyfriend who had money.. I mean he cheated, he aint come home, he totally disrespected her but when HE was ready to settle down he chose her and she married him. I guess its whoever deals with the s*** the longest wins. LOL

Comment by TawnBaby on June 25, 2012 at 4:39pm

after a while it gets tiring...but i feel this 

and i believe it

i put up with it...but he f***** up and had a kid so it was over for him 

Comment by BlackSnakeMoan on June 25, 2012 at 5:17pm

i'm learning that it's not worth it... 

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