It's time I come on here and give some pointers on some things. I been hearing a lot lately about chix getting caught up in their s***. It is very easy to be scandalous just as it is for a guy to be. All you have to do is KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.

Myspace Facebook is a big factor in females getting caught up lately. Why are you on every dudes page commenting and posting comments saying hey baby and giving yourself away? If you need to be seen by the guy or need to say something to him, SEND IT IN A MESSAGE, NOT A COMMENT! You comment becaue you want other b****** to see, trust and believe, they aint worried about you and if they are he will lie about you. STOP b******* about NOT being in his top friends. You don't want public evidence that you are connected to this dude in some way. Just KNOW for yourself what it is between the two of you until you decide you wanna stop doing your dirt.

What a lot of yall don't know is that guys get on myspace and talk about what girl they are going to try to meet and bang. They all gather around the computer and click away from page to page and whose page do they come across? ... YOURS because you on everybodies page.

Text Messages - Some of you get carried away and reply all fast and have multiple messages going on at one time and accidentally send the wrong message to the wrong guy and now you look stupid. The key is to treat your pimping like a business and proof red before you send and make sure that it is the right dude. You can't afford to lose out over dumb mistakes like that.

Also, as much as you want to share information with people who you think are your friends, DON'T. They will put your business in the streets faster than Wendy Williams and will put you on blast behind your back and then you wonder how in the hell Joe and Mike found out you was f****** with Bob. Don't tell anybody your s***, the key is to DO YOU. Tell people very little about yourself unless you 100% trust them. People who don't know me personally don't know EVERYTHING about me, they think I'm just a rich girl who comes out to play here and there but they don't know what goes on after I leave the club.

Also, if you go out with a guy, don't show too much public affection to where someone could mistakes yall to be together. Try to act like friends in public and when you get home give him the business. So if anybody see you out, you can say, we are really cool, went to school together or he dates my friend she asked me to take him out or whatever good excuse you can come up with. Public affection is not good unless you are really trying to lock him and only him down.

Don't post pictures of every guy you meet on your page. It looks bad for business and the key is to keep them all in the dark about each other. Girls will be so quick to right click your picture and save and blast your ass on the internet connecting you with some wild story about you and the baller in your picture. Don't let other ballers know that you know a specific baller. They will take it and run with it.

*Now I will add, some ballers do know about me kmessing with other ballers but I'm quick to give them and ego boost and tell them what they wanna hear, "HE DON'T HAVE NOTHING ON YOU BABY." IF he hears this, he aint going to run back to this dude to compare notes. He know all he need to know and he'll keep it moving. Also you have to act more important than him and tell him " IF WHA T WE DO GETS OUT TO ANYBODY, I MEAN ANYBODY.. I'm cutting you off and I'm telling everything that you may not want to get out." This is a turn on for him because the fact that you want to hide it more than him will make him want to keep you around longer and he wont say a word in fear of losing you (THAT IS IF YOU PUT THE P**** POWER ON HIM)

So ladies, the key is to be secretive with people, don't tell them all our business, just some. I've told you guys a lot and I have named a few names, BUT THERE IS A LOT you still don't know about Cassandra! :)

That's all for now

~Sandra :)

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Comment by Holly-Would on April 23, 2008 at 7:37pm
I definitley believe in not telling everyone everything, the myspace thing is so lame....

I see girls posting comments on pictures and leaving messages like babe this babe that, and while I'm reading those comments he's hitting me up on the phone at the same time, or somebody is blowing up his PDA and I'm sitting across from eating dinner...

Even mutual friends don't need to know we deal with eachother...I don't need anyone all up in my business...One pet peeve I've just developed is I hate when I talk to someone and they're like so whats up, what you been up to?, what you doing now/later? Im like mind your phucking business and stop asking me so many dang on questions. WTF are YOU doing?

And my Biggest Boss is my best kept one...there are things I will take to the grave when it comes to him...its like this girl i knew in High School, she had this tattoo on her back....every word was in a different language. So no one person could ever read it...unless maybe they worked for the United Nations....thats how I am, no one will ever be able to accurately tell my story but me, and maybe my sister! Good blog i needed to release that :)
Comment by Cassandra on April 23, 2008 at 7:52pm
Amen to that Queen. You can't reveal everything about yourself to everybody, then what do you have for yourself after you gave it all to everybody. Keep some but not all things to yourself, and YES PEOPLE pluck at your business by asking a million questions then be mad when you cut them short. I just say, if we was really that cool, you already know the questions you just asked me.
Comment by CocoDiva81 on April 23, 2008 at 8:58pm
I know too many chicks messing up on Myspace. I don't get their need to put s*** out for everybody, I mean if you know what you have what difference does it make? Myspace is even breaking up relationships! One of my boys that plays ball got caught up by some chick who made a fake profile just to be friends with him to find his girl and put him on blast...Like the woman said...Keep ya mouth shut!
Comment by Sugar D*** on April 23, 2008 at 9:56pm
CASSANDRA IS ME IF I WAS A FEMALE! HAHA. ITS ALL TRUE,,,
Comment by The Watcher on April 24, 2008 at 2:33am
Myspace is the devil. And yes these lil lookatmee chicks got the game all messed up. Then they wonder why they get replaced so damn easily. Walking around with...what you call it... a wet ass and dry purse. Oh, and some pics to post on Myspace.
Comment by Indentical Twin on April 24, 2008 at 9:39am
Myspace is the damn debil. I rarely log on to my account.
Comment by Miss Sweet Jones on April 24, 2008 at 9:51am
Men like a little mystery anyways. Cassandra always speaks the truth. I don't know why all these chicks try to brag on who they are seeing. I don't get a f*** unless I am seeing him too and we are in a serious relationship. Other wise...STFU! Women need to learn how to be like a boy...like Ciara says.
Comment by rainonme on April 24, 2008 at 12:29pm
Another good thing to do is to keep your mouth shut about these websites we gossip bout their a**** on! Never let them know you post about anything, play stupid to this s***!
Comment by Siren on April 24, 2008 at 12:39pm
Great Blog Cassandra!

It is ALWAYS your "FRIENDS" that tell your secrets! Only tell what you don't mind people knowing..... (b*tches be pillow talking like ish!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)
Comment by Miss Beauty on April 24, 2008 at 12:46pm
WOW!! You said it all! Ive learned not to give up too much information because you give leverage to that person. Never tell anything that can be used against you in the long run! Everything aint for everybody!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #1 RULE TO LIVE BY!

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