It's time I come on here and give some pointers on some things. I been hearing a lot lately about chix getting caught up in their s***. It is very easy to be scandalous just as it is for a guy to be. All you have to do is KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.

Myspace Facebook is a big factor in females getting caught up lately. Why are you on every dudes page commenting and posting comments saying hey baby and giving yourself away? If you need to be seen by the guy or need to say something to him, SEND IT IN A MESSAGE, NOT A COMMENT! You comment becaue you want other b****** to see, trust and believe, they aint worried about you and if they are he will lie about you. STOP b******* about NOT being in his top friends. You don't want public evidence that you are connected to this dude in some way. Just KNOW for yourself what it is between the two of you until you decide you wanna stop doing your dirt.

What a lot of yall don't know is that guys get on myspace and talk about what girl they are going to try to meet and bang. They all gather around the computer and click away from page to page and whose page do they come across? ... YOURS because you on everybodies page.

Text Messages - Some of you get carried away and reply all fast and have multiple messages going on at one time and accidentally send the wrong message to the wrong guy and now you look stupid. The key is to treat your pimping like a business and proof red before you send and make sure that it is the right dude. You can't afford to lose out over dumb mistakes like that.

Also, as much as you want to share information with people who you think are your friends, DON'T. They will put your business in the streets faster than Wendy Williams and will put you on blast behind your back and then you wonder how in the hell Joe and Mike found out you was f****** with Bob. Don't tell anybody your s***, the key is to DO YOU. Tell people very little about yourself unless you 100% trust them. People who don't know me personally don't know EVERYTHING about me, they think I'm just a rich girl who comes out to play here and there but they don't know what goes on after I leave the club.

Also, if you go out with a guy, don't show too much public affection to where someone could mistakes yall to be together. Try to act like friends in public and when you get home give him the business. So if anybody see you out, you can say, we are really cool, went to school together or he dates my friend she asked me to take him out or whatever good excuse you can come up with. Public affection is not good unless you are really trying to lock him and only him down.

Don't post pictures of every guy you meet on your page. It looks bad for business and the key is to keep them all in the dark about each other. Girls will be so quick to right click your picture and save and blast your ass on the internet connecting you with some wild story about you and the baller in your picture. Don't let other ballers know that you know a specific baller. They will take it and run with it.

*Now I will add, some ballers do know about me kmessing with other ballers but I'm quick to give them and ego boost and tell them what they wanna hear, "HE DON'T HAVE NOTHING ON YOU BABY." IF he hears this, he aint going to run back to this dude to compare notes. He know all he need to know and he'll keep it moving. Also you have to act more important than him and tell him " IF WHA T WE DO GETS OUT TO ANYBODY, I MEAN ANYBODY.. I'm cutting you off and I'm telling everything that you may not want to get out." This is a turn on for him because the fact that you want to hide it more than him will make him want to keep you around longer and he wont say a word in fear of losing you (THAT IS IF YOU PUT THE P**** POWER ON HIM)

So ladies, the key is to be secretive with people, don't tell them all our business, just some. I've told you guys a lot and I have named a few names, BUT THERE IS A LOT you still don't know about Cassandra! :)

That's all for now

~Sandra :)

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Tags: facebook, secrets

Comment by Cassandra on April 24, 2008 at 11:26pm
Always keep a secret or two for yourself. ALWAYS!
Comment by OUT OF CONTROL on May 12, 2008 at 5:07pm
Damn, I missed this! This is a hella of a blog! Myspace is a b****! That's why my man will never know I have a Myspace page. You made a good point about Ballers on blast. I will search Myspace for my baller and send a message not comment just to say hello, or something to have his ass like damn thats a bad b****. This is another form of communication w/o texting or phone contact which can become annoying to your Baller. Real Ballers don't check their page daily anyways, so when they see my message they can respond that way and know I was thinking of them, and in return they look at my fine ass w/o seeming like a pest and this ASS is always on their mind. LOL

If my all day man knew I had a MYSPACE I'd be in trouble there too. His slow ass don't know nothing about no computers. He just got a Yahoo account and can't keep up with that. He's such a Flinstone when it comes to technology! Just how I like it!
Comment by Baller Alert on September 9, 2008 at 8:29pm
Oldie but goodie...
Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on September 9, 2008 at 8:56pm
where is Cassandra these dayz? Doing more stuff to blog for us I guess! lol!
Comment by Ms. Determined on September 10, 2008 at 9:11am
Great Advice. I'm going to change my top I hate it when guys ask for my myspace page anyway.I feel like their in my private space.
Comment by BMR on September 10, 2008 at 1:59pm
Str8 B*******!
Comment by Black_celebutante on September 10, 2008 at 5:00pm
gotta love cassandra's blog....havent seen a blog from her in a while...hint hint!
Comment by blackfujones on September 14, 2008 at 11:26am
interesting.i got caught as an adolescant hoppin site to site.yea i deserved to get my head pealed bc i was all wrong out there. like folk said already keep ya ish discreet,and if folks dont wanna play their role then that get replaced immediately
Comment by blackfujones on September 14, 2008 at 11:27am
btw..i dont even have a myspace page,im just a tad bit popular on the southside of the chi
Comment by James Jones on August 11, 2009 at 10:40am
word life. I send out the same text to 10 girls at a time, so sometimes I gotta stop and check the recipient before the responses go back out.

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