Learn to Pick Your Battles
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Do you want to be right -- and alone ? It's not about being right or wrong all the time. Sometimes you have to let things slide (not important things) arguing over every little thing is childish. (only you know what is important to you) If you know you have to tell him to take out the trash, just remind him. If it bothers you to put the cap back on the toothbrush WOOSAH then just do it. If he is late just suck it up. Unless he is ALWAYS late then you have to reassess what is worth arguing about and take one for the team.( I don't date late ass mofo's lol) ***Side Note - There is a very big difference between keeping quiet and playing the ass*** ( which of course men will pick door # 2 all day) I'm not saying make significant amount of chances to the point where you lessen or lost your morals and principles. In that case I say bounce (Face it who wants to play by themselves) it wasn't fun as a child (with imagination) I'm not a child!!! (I'm a grown ass woman dog in my Cedric the Entertainer voice). Sometimes women can be stubborn, and argue over petty stuff. It happens to the best of us because the love is so deep emotions take over. I was never like that, but it's always that ONE that brings out your EVIL twin (in my Dr. Evil voice). We are QUEENS we must lead the way for our KINGS.....(more on that later).
Here is a Tip : Consider softening you approach. Reconsidering a criticism or hard-line stance on a matter could improve your relationship or love-life. I'm finally back to my old self (laughing to myself). My swagger is in rare form. I can do some damage (ego) I have this attitude " I know it's a recession but I can teach you a lesson " ( say that line while listening to Whatever you like) (some might not get it but the naughty girls will). I have a bright future and apart of growing is being able to control your thoughts, emotions, and appetites. Keep doing you don't wait around for your Kings approval (he should know what he has, as you should know what you have as well). In this life I take nothing for granted. I am blessed. It could be worse. Let's not get wrapped up in titles, just have fun and live. We only have one life to live (like the soap) you get one shot let's make it count !!! If you have someone special enjoy the time you spend. Soak up all the momentous occasions because in the end that's all you will have left. I woke up and had a epiphany. If you chose to follow what I said I believe that in an ironic twist, it could be your respect,and compassion to defer and pick your battles that breaks him or MELTS his heart. And get him to make an exception to the rule.
Luv yaz,
SUG*
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Comment by Cougar $pice on January 31, 2009 at 7:33pm - Good Post SUG, in all avenues of life, pick those battles (you can't win them all any) *LMAO @ the pic*
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Comment by $o $oft N $o $weet on January 31, 2009 at 8:07pm -
I co-sign with Spice...save the drama for the major no-no's...unless it's that toilet seat ;)
(major pet peeve of mine)
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Comment by L0vie D0vie on January 31, 2009 at 8:46pm - "Pick them wisely"
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Comment by Sugar on January 31, 2009 at 10:45pm - I think I will add if you get into a agruement ALWAYS still cook for your man....one agruement doesn't mean you don't perform your duties that's childish, cause I know if I need something I expect my man to help even if he mad at me. In other words your responiblity doesn't change. I know a chick that needs to learn this big time..lol
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Comment by CLEM on February 1, 2009 at 2:16am -
This is a good one Chipotle. I have to keep reminding myself WOOSAH and to take one for the team.
We are QUEENS we must lead the way for our KINGS - That's an interesting topic I will be waiting for that segment.
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Comment by Sugar on February 1, 2009 at 12:08pm
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@ Soft N Sweet LMAO @ toilet bowl...it's on huh !!!
@ Spicey lmao @ pic I had to put that one...that's the outcome.
@ Chipotle thanks boo....still working on that other thing it's very hard to do it by yourself.
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Comment by OUT OF CONTROL on February 2, 2009 at 10:10am - I agree with this blog...Pick them wisely!! I "try to tell myself" this each time before I send a text and open my mouth to read it over five times and repeat in my head ten times to be sure!!! But the key phrase is "try to tell myself" LOL!!! I'm working on it damnit!!! I'm getting better at it though...
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Comment by Siren on February 2, 2009 at 11:06am - This is very important and something my father used to try and drill in my head when I was younger. It has made all of the difference in the world... not only is better for my relationship it is better for me. Because I am not as affected by the small things which is less stress!
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Comment by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on February 2, 2009 at 11:21am - I swear this is one of the most important lessons in life and love...I used to go ballistic about everything...now I'm much more easy going...GREAT BLOG!
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Comment by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on February 2, 2009 at 11:23am
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I swear this is one of the most important lessons in life and love...I used to go ballistic about everything...now I'm much more easy going...GREAT BLOG!
And you are so right...YOU SHOULD ALWAYS PERFORM YOUR DUTIES!!!1
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