Learn to Pick Your Battles

Do you want to be right -- and alone ? It's not about being right or wrong all the time. Sometimes you have to let things slide (not important things) arguing over every little thing is childish. (only you know what is important to you) If you know you have to tell him to take out the trash, just remind him. If it bothers you to put the cap back on the toothbrush WOOSAH then just do it. If he is late just suck it up. Unless he is ALWAYS late then you have to reassess what is worth arguing about and take one for the team.( I don't date late ass mofo's lol) ***Side Note - There is a very big difference between keeping quiet and playing the ass*** ( which of course men will pick door # 2 all day) I'm not saying make significant amount of chances to the point where you lessen or lost your morals and principles. In that case I say bounce (Face it who wants to play by themselves) it wasn't fun as a child (with imagination) I'm not a child!!! (I'm a grown ass woman dog in my Cedric the Entertainer voice). Sometimes women can be stubborn, and argue over petty stuff. It happens to the best of us because the love is so deep emotions take over. I was never like that, but it's always that ONE that brings out your EVIL twin (in my Dr. Evil voice). We are QUEENS we must lead the way for our KINGS.....(more on that later).

Here is a Tip : Consider softening you approach. Reconsidering a criticism or hard-line stance on a matter could improve your relationship or love-life. I'm finally back to my old self (laughing to myself). My swagger is in rare form. I can do some damage (ego) I have this attitude " I know it's a recession but I can teach you a lesson " ( say that line while listening to Whatever you like) (some might not get it but the naughty girls will). I have a bright future and apart of growing is being able to control your thoughts, emotions, and appetites. Keep doing you don't wait around for your Kings approval (he should know what he has, as you should know what you have as well). In this life I take nothing for granted. I am blessed. It could be worse. Let's not get wrapped up in titles, just have fun and live. We only have one life to live (like the soap) you get one shot let's make it count !!! If you have someone special enjoy the time you spend. Soak up all the momentous occasions because in the end that's all you will have left. I woke up and had a epiphany. If you chose to follow what I said I believe that in an ironic twist, it could be your respect,and compassion to defer and pick your battles that breaks him or MELTS his heart. And get him to make an exception to the rule.


Luv yaz,

SUG*