Ladies, Ladies, Ladies!! I am about done with yall sending these men nude pictures of yourself. Cassie and Rihanna's private parts have been viewed by the world and you could be next.

Now I know some of you are desperate to keep your baller satisfied and will do anything to stay on his mind, so you might think sending him a nude picture of yourself is innocent and harmless when in reality it is the worst thing you could possibly do. He more than likely has sent you a mass-text message to you and 50 other girls in his phone asking for nude pictures so he and his teammates/co-workers/homeboys can all compare your body to the next b**** and laugh at how dumb you are to send those type of pictures with no hesitation. These pictures might get your baller through a hard day but after that, your ass goes on display to his homies if you are not wifey. Yall need to learn that these dudes do not care about you like they pretend to. You are basically sending him blackmail on yourself. If you piss him off, he could easily put you on blast by exposing your goods to the world. Now I will say, the only person who should ever be so privelleged to receive pictures of your goods is your husband. He will be the only one that doesn't want everyone to see what he has. These other guys don't give a f*** and will show anybody aroun him including females. I've seen pictures of dumb hoes in a guys phone I use to f*** with and I see her out from time to time and I laugh to myself because she has no idea that I know her puss is hanging like a saggy tittie and she thought that s*** was cute to send. It became a joke and who knows who else has seen it.

So what do you do to keep him happy and not make him upset when he ask for a nude picture and you say no? You simply tell him "You need to come see this in person, there is nothing like the real thing." He isn't going to give up that easy, he is going to continue to beg you for a nude picture. What you can do is, send him your sexiest picture and tell him to imagine you with your clothes off but NEVER SEND HIM A NUDE PICTURE OF YOURSELF. Now you gave him something to look at and didn't leave him completely hanging. If he isn't happy with that, Oh fuc*n well. You at least have insurance that your dad/neighbors/friends/co-workers will never see your puss online or anywhere else other than in person if that is appropriate. You can send him dirty text messages and have phone sex all day if you choose to but do not send pictures EVER! I REPEAT DO NO SEND NUDE PICTURES EVER! They can send pictures of their dicks all day but never return the favor, you have the p**** that he wants to get to and by you not sending a picture of it is just going to make him want to get to it even more to see what it is like.

I can't stress enough that these ballers are not that serious about you like you think they are. I'm not saying it is not possible for them to ever get serious with you and really like you but to find out if his feelings are genuine, you have to make him work for it. I suggest you have fun with them, let them trick on you, (wait, it's not tricking if you got it) and take you on trips and break you off with some good d*** here and there. Do not invest all your feelings into them, you should use them before they use you. Purse first, ass last, pix NEVER! :)

This is a random blog topic but I felt the need to speak on it because yall hoes is being careless with your puss like it is a community puss for everybody to see. If you can't see it in person, you don't need to see it at all. You work for my puss, I don't work for your d***. Puss runs the world and when you learn that, you will be a better person and get what you deserve from your baller instead of a wet puss and a dry purse.

That's all for now!

~Sandra :)

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Comment by honorthyself1st on May 11, 2009 at 1:09am
You are great! Thanks for keepin' it real. Purse first, ass last, pix NEVER!
Although I'm a newbie I've read all your blogs & have enjoyed every one!

I ENJOY EVERYONE OF BA!! loves it. HI Y'ALL. :o)

Anywho, I feel the most sad for Cassie though. She had her stuff ALLLL out there like she was @ the gyno! ...it's just sad.
Comment by Seductress on May 11, 2009 at 2:26am
Thanks for the good word cass! As always excellent Blog!
Comment by Empowered Woman aka $picey on May 11, 2009 at 5:46am
This isn't a random blog topic Cass, this is needed and we appreciate it.
I always stress no naked pics or video. 'Relationships' go south so fast these days it's easier to pack your s*** and leave with confidence, but if you got stuff like this out there it's your fault. Beware ladies don't get too caught up.

"You need to come see this in person, there is nothing like the real thing." adding this to my personal lexicon. :)
Comment by Black_celebutante on May 11, 2009 at 6:58am
Another classic blog from Cass

I hope people take heed!
Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on May 11, 2009 at 9:08am
Oh Lord Cassandra I love this! My sentiments exactly...I mean who is dumb enough to send a naked pic?
Bishes ain't s***...
Comment by Baller Alert on May 11, 2009 at 9:57am
Word...
Comment by Moving In Silence on May 11, 2009 at 10:03am
let the congregation say church
Comment by MYPRESISBLACK!!! on May 11, 2009 at 10:13am
I always say, "Nope, I might want to run for president some day" Good post Cassandra.
Comment by Damnstraight on May 11, 2009 at 11:38am
Thank you. Someone with some sense.
Comment by Snow Flower on May 11, 2009 at 12:18pm
lol...

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