It has just been brought to my attention that there are actually quite a few men out there who do not realize that they are some young lady's sugar daddy. I was always under the impression that older and less attractive men who dated these young beautiful models knew what the deal was. I always assumed that if he was putting her in a nice car and keeping Louboutins on her feet that he knew that she only needed him around financially. I never realized sugar daddies fall in love.

When it comes to being a sugar daddy, it was always my thought that it was a mutual agreement. You show him a little love, he fattens your pockets a little more. Unfortunately, quite a few men are falling in love. Let's take Hugh Hefner for example. To some 65 year old grandmother I'm sure he's gorgeous. To most women around 25, he's old but he's filthy rich. The rich part is what attracts us. Most women couldn't imagine sleeping with a man Hugh Hefner's age but once she realizes how much he's worth, exceptions will be made. When Hef is courting these young bunnies, does he actually thing that they are in love? I'm sure he can tell they only see dollar signs...or can he?

Let's face it old guys, if back then she didn't want you and now that you're hot she's all on you, she doesn't really want YOU. She wants what you have to offer and that's a little financial stability. I'm not saying you're ugly, but what do you and a 22 year old really have in common? She likes Basketball Wives and you like CNN. Your world's are completely opposite. In order to truly love someone shouldn't there be some type of commonality between you two? The only thing you truly have in common is that you and her mother used to go to the same high school. Face it, she's just not that in to you.