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Poor Ho, Rich Ho: Play Just Dumb Enough To Get Into His Pockets
I've been reading this book "Rich Ho, Poor Ho" for a few days. I've had it in my possession for a long time but work and life has kept me away from really reading it. I decided to break it open the other day and really figure out what it's about. To break it down as briefly as possible, it's written by a "Pimp" who gives advice to women to help them go from being a Poor Ho to a Rich Ho. Aside from the fact that he's a pimp and their hoes, I figured there would be a lot of good advice in it for using what you got to get what you want. So, I read on and wanted to share with you guys. Here's our first lesson for the day:
Play Just Dumb Enough To Get Into His Pockets
Men that enter my world are egotistical creatures that seek to conquer. The very act of sexual penetration is like wielding and thrusting a sword into prey. So many men are under the illusion that hos are dumb because to men, when a woman uses sex to manipulate or goes from one man to the next, she’s stupid. Supposedly, such women are not getting what they want from men.
On the other hand, smart hos know how to play dumb just enough to be approachable and unassuming to men. Disarming men of the need to think logically can’t be done by a ho bragging about her PhD. Men that think logically while dealing with hos always end up getting something for nothing from dumb hos that claim to be smart. Men that feel no need to prove their intelligence when dealing with smart hos that know how to play dumb, pay more money.
Grasp that the male psychi is competitive. Men come to hos to relax, not have the same so-called intellectual debates with a ho that they may have with a wife or girlfriend. I don’t mean for hos to act dingy (unless the men pay more for such role playing, of course) but I do mean that hos need to know how to switch the focus of men from being smart and competitive to being foolish. Only a fool would pay for something that could be attained freely.
So when a smart ho tells men that most men love her feet and ankles even though she knows that her mind is as sharp as a razor, she’s telling men where she wants their focus to start. She’s setting the stage for her own game. Will men fall in love with her feet and ankles?
Some will, some will admire but gravitate to her thighs or butt, some will fall for her eyes or the way she talks. By the time these men are entranced, the smart ho has been watching each of them, studying where their eyes roam and fixate, figuring out how they think and what turns them on. What these men will not be doing when they are relaxed and catered to properly is putting efforts into being defensive, competitive and antagonistic. Disarmed men are great contributors to the financial causes of smart hos.
Ironically, even if the ho knows that her feet and ankles are indeed her worst feature but watches men lie about how great her feet and ankles look, the ho learns how such men lie. If a ho can’t tell when her clients or fans are lying, she’s no longer in business, she’s a fool in love.
Cliff Notes Ballerific Version: Men, especially Ballers, are egotistical creatures. They don't want a combative woman to challenge their every word. Sometimes they just want a bimbo. This is why trophy wives exist and men marry hoes. To snag a Baller and begin working your way into his pockets, be smart enough to dumb it down a little. And before the righteous get angry, keep in mind that this is a "game" and you are "competing". No one is telling you to BE dumb, just saying to act dumb sometimes.
You can cop your copy of Poor Ho, Rich Ho HERE. Look for more Rich Ho advice coming soon!
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Comment by JoVonnaTrendy on August 28, 2012 at 10:34am -
This sounds like a good book. I might have to get it because I always play the Smart ass lol..
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Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 28, 2012 at 10:50am -
lol @ 'before the righteous get angry
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Comment by Baller Alert on August 28, 2012 at 11:21am -
Need to read this!!! I'm surprised he is telling the game...lol
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Comment by Need A Sponsor on August 28, 2012 at 12:04pm -
One of my classmates told me about it, but I can never find.
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Comment by livelife25 on August 28, 2012 at 1:22pm -
The little excerpt you shared was pretty insightful. A deeper look at the "you get more flies with honey than vinegar" sentiment. I feel like I understand this thinking and I get why it works but underneath it all I don't have the patience to execute. I'm always working on something, and I don't like giving up the time it takes to get inside someone's head (though I know it pays off in the long run.) I'm more for blunt exchanges.
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Comment by ATown SouthernGal on August 28, 2012 at 2:13pm -
Great post!
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Comment by Eleven8 on August 28, 2012 at 2:39pm -
@livelife25, the first step is definitely to understand the way "they" think. You've done that so you're halfway there. Execution is next step and of course practice practice practice. Execution is where the most work is necessary. If you don't have the time to dedicate to it, it won't happen. This is true with anything, not just getting into a Baller's pockets. Just depends on how bad you want it.
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Comment by JoVonnaTrendy on August 28, 2012 at 3:05pm
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@eleven 8 you serious with it. I think I'm going to have a hard time playing dumb.
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Comment by DdoubleD on August 28, 2012 at 3:50pm -
My nana always says "a wiseman can play the role of a fool, but a fool could never play the role of the wise man".
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Comment by SoLuscious on August 28, 2012 at 6:57pm
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lol i need something entertaining to read on the subway....
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