Relationship Expert Defines "Gold Digger"

I spotted this video over at Baller Wives. Relationship expert Stephan Labossiere stopped by Portia Kirkland's “PK Faith Show”. He was asked to define the term "Gold Digger". He began his explanation by saying, "A woman who prioritizes money as her main goal when it comes to a relationship". Very generic answer but I don't know how much of a relationship "expert" he is, he didn't really say anything that wasn't common sense. Another guest brings up that it's a power trip. The host makes the assumption that all "gold diggers" look like strippers and have no self confidence. What do you think about his interview? Watch Below.

 

 

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Comment by Bonita on October 19, 2012 at 7:53am

who is this guy???? the generalization on his part is extreme ya'll sure this isn't tone he sounds low key bitter

Comment by Baller Alert on October 19, 2012 at 9:56am

I think a woman puts security first in a relationship and $$$$ is 90% of that... Women like to feel safe...

Comment by Baller Alert on October 19, 2012 at 9:58am

And this relationship expert needs a new job... he sucks ass.

Comment by luvsmoochez on October 19, 2012 at 11:41am

Dayum Boss, tell us how you really feel! lmfao...

Comment by Lady on October 20, 2012 at 3:08am

its all about intentions, no female says she wants a broke guy, but if a female gets with a guy with money gets pregnant by him or marries him and they dont end up together or she does not care for him and she can care less as long as she gets a nice amount of money from it, or is with a guy shes not attracted to but he got money and thats the #1 thing that interests her about him, then she might be a gold digger... But if the guy happens to have the whole package, shes attracted to him, he got money/a good job and treats her right, then i wouldnt consider that a gold digger

Comment by Eleven8 on October 20, 2012 at 6:46pm

AMEN!!!! @Maria Gomez

Comment by Dragon Slayer Puss on October 21, 2012 at 1:07pm

I second that AMEN @maria. Most men with money don't mind giving, nut they will not give much to a woman who does not value her goods highly. My first baller taught me that. He wanted me to get the highest price everything and if I ever hinted at money he would get mad if I sad a low amount like 500. He WANTED me to say 2000 or else I think HE THOUGHT I WAS SELLING MYSELF SHORT, Like I didnt think I deserved 2000 for shoes, savings, lunch money or whatever.

I did notice the bible chick was single i guess or not married. As i am refining my walk with Lawd Jesus, I don't think he will object to me conversing with men, and possibly mentioning some things I need help with. The man was right, u can get it without giving it up. I'll stop at the line that crosses into giving it up, lol and me and Jesus will be good.  

I feel Women wanted to be married play themselves royally thinking they cant be about money and get a quality man. Men, REAL MEN, want to give so saying "nah, i'm ok, or he doesnt have to give me anything" is keep them single, imo. I think my baller sticks around because every now and then I need him for something. Even if it's only advice. 

Comment by Dragon Slayer Puss on October 21, 2012 at 1:10pm

Also, who the hell was breathing so hard in this vid?? LOL I thought somebody was in the room with me lmao

Comment by Baller Alert on October 21, 2012 at 4:21pm

@love is a losing i thought the same thing lol

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