Royce Addresses Dezmon Situation In A New Blog

This is a bit long winded but it's a good read.  I commend Royce for being an open book. I don't like how she tried to throw baby mama under the bus, that was catty. You don't know what baby mama's motives are until you talk to her, Royce. Keep in mind you are in a situation far messier than hers. Anyway, check out a blog post by Royce regarding the whole situation. I guess it looks like the two may have split....for now.

 

When I was first asked to blog about what just happened in my life, I shunned it. Now, I realize that due to my life being an open book and my “relationship” being on national TV, I should.

 

One thing a lot of you don’t know about me is I’m a 100% committed to anything I put my name on. In a relationship comes humility. When I decided to do this show I vowed to be open, and honest about all aspects of my life that I could. I’m human!

 

I don’t portray myself to be anyone I am not. I go to the grocery store in sweats and sneakers like everyone else. Because I’m on TV doesn’t mean I don’t hurt or that I don’t go through the same trials and tribulations as everyone else.

 

We, Reality Stars, are put in a very vulnerable position when we sign up for these shows. No matter what we go through, the good, the bad, the ugly, when we walk outside we get recognized and judged. I’m not going to put on a front like I’m okay. My heart hurts.

Do I think Dezmon loves me? Yes! Do I think what he did was wrong? Absolutely. Are we done…forever? Honestly, I don’t know. Readers can say I’m dumb if I go back, but with relationships come mistakes.

 

I was lied to and lesson learned…I entertained it on Twitter. I let the drama get to me despite being told to ignore it. That was my immaturity in this experience coming out. I admit that. Yes, I’m embarrassed, humiliated and broken. But I’m strong.

 

Regardless of what happens I will be okay. Do I love him? Yes. Is that enough to stay? At this point, no. I entertained the mother of his son because I trusted what I was told and I stood by him as I should have.

 

Was I the fool? Yep! Do some find it funny that I have egg on my face? Sadly yes, but that means they are lacking happiness and love in their own lives hence them basking in another person’s hurt. Ignorance is bliss but it’s also dangerous.

As far as the logistics go…”At the end of the day” (Jen voice) he will not be with her. So the rant she went on and my responses change nothing for her life. Not only do I look like a fool in love, but she looks like a bitter, jealous and angry “Baby Momma.” That’s worse.

 

Fact is, they were never an item. They were never a couple. But for just under a year, she has been angry that he has been with me. Her twitter name was @dezbriscoejrmom…That was her identity.

 

If you go thru her page (she obviously wanted followers and a platform, so I’m giving it to her) you will see how angry she was that we were together. She spoke about the cruise we went on, him saying he loved me, wanted to marry me, etc. If she didn’t care, why talk about it? If you didn’t watch the show, why do you know every minute of our scenes as if you were commentating?

 

I’m sure she wonders why she was never “the one” to marry but just “the one” to do before he met me. I can’t imagine what Dezmon is feeling right now because, again, I was with my son’s father for four years despite the drama we are going through. So I can’t imagine having a child by someone who never claimed me or never had me front and center at some point.

 

My son puts a smile on my face everyday so no matter what happens I know as long as I’m a good mother that in itself completes me when he wipes my tears, I clean his boo



I like Royce, I honestly do. Before Tami, Royce was my favorite Basketball Wives cast member. Seeing her make the same mistakes over and over though, it's annoying. I just don't want to sit up and see anyone get played when the writing is so clearly on the wall. I predicted the exact lie he was going to tell. It's not rocket science. Focus on your son and your career Royce, being a sucker for love is only giving Dwight Howard more ammunition in the custody battle. And stop letting these stranger niggas sleep in the bed with your son!

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Comment by Maya Wilkes on April 19, 2012 at 1:07pm

she is still shading the BM like its all her fault. Its not! He gets all of the blame in this. the BM just playing her part even though that was f'd up how she put Royce and Dez on blast. She couldve just dm'd Royce. She wanted to embarass Royce and Royce fed into it and gave her the opportunity

Comment by Maya Wilkes on April 19, 2012 at 1:11pm

Plus Royce is saying slick sh*t like "he'll never be with her". She dont know! My husband left me after three weeks of being married for his BM that he swore up and down he hated..so u never know. He fell for that "be nice to see your baby stuff too". (On the bright side, I'm killing his a** in spousal support though.)

Comment by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on April 19, 2012 at 1:11pm

well said royce.

Comment by JustMe on April 19, 2012 at 1:12pm
Kudos!!!
Comment by Baller Alert on April 19, 2012 at 1:17pm

She looked crazy on twitter...you are suppose to trust your man but 9 times out of 10 they lie lie lie. SMH

Comment by Maya Wilkes on April 19, 2012 at 1:22pm

Exactly boss! She shouldve handled that via DM or just called her up. The world aint have to know all of thier business

Comment by Sissy on April 19, 2012 at 1:45pm

Reality TV or not, she should have never, ever, ever let this play out on twitter.  From top to bottom, from the BM reaching out to her to him apologizing was all on twitter- what sense does that make??

Also, every season we should not be seeing her with a different dude talking about how much she is in love! Most importantly, she should NOT be letting them infiltrate into her and her son's life so easily- the boy is probably confused.  Since this show began she's had 4 different men around her son- and those are only the ones we know about...

She just needs to slow her roll before she passes judgement on anyone else, including his BM.  

Comment by JustMe on April 19, 2012 at 1:45pm
I told y'all she been crazy for a long time.
Comment by University of Smitty on April 19, 2012 at 1:58pm

Royce is like nails on a chalkboard to me  She's still trying to talk sh*t about the BM....smh.  Damn b***h, grow up already!!!!!!  I guess she knows they wont be together just she knew those text messages were fake, huh.  NEWS FLASH ROYCE:  you dont know sh*t.   She needs to just stfu ALL the time.  It's better to let people think you're retarded rather than open your mouth and PROVE you're retarded

Comment by MzJay on April 19, 2012 at 2:04pm

I feel her but I surely wouldn't give the kids mother a platform nor speak on her...for what? 

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