SIGNS THAT YOU HAVE A CONTROLLING MAN/BALLER....

Does he ask you to call him every time you make a move? Does he help you pick out your clothes? Does he talk about your friends he doesn't like?

If your man does those things above...he is not worried about you he is trying to control you. Controlling relationships usually turn out really bad. If your man shows some of these signs you might want to reevaluate the relationship and get out fast.

Here are signs of a controlling man:

-he isolates you from your friends/family. When he tries to isolate you from your friends and family he is trying to remove your support system. He wants you to be dependent strictly on him. He might not do the typical thing like tell you your friends are trash but he might move you 100's of miles away from your family.

-comments about the way you dress. I'm sure you didn't change your style of dress when he met you. So why does he have a problem now?

-gets upset when you don't answer the phone..or don't answer fast enough. He wants you to be on-call every second of the day.

-attention whore. He wants all of your time. He wants to be the center of your existence. When you go out, it is to something that he chooses to do. He cares nothing about your interests.

-he dismisses anything you want to do. It's all about him.

-he puts you down to build himself up.

-he mind fucks you. Plays mind controlling games.

-he tells you things you are doing wrong. He constantly judges you and he is always unappreciative.

-if it seems like you have no time for yourself. If he is not around he has giving you constant errands to do. Or make you hang around his family so he can keep an eye on you.

-he asks a million questions. Why did it take you more than 15 minutes to get home? It's almost like an interrogation.

-he does whatever he wants to do and soon as you ask about his whereabouts he becomes defensive.

-he is always right

-if he has money he will make you feel inferior. Never depend solely on a man. Have a mad stash.

-he belittles your self-confidence. Tells you things like no one will ever want you.

-forces you to do things against your will.

Always respect yourself first. Woman intend to love to hard and we ignore the red flags. Trust yourself.

Thoughts?