Ladies, I'm here to tell you something no one else will ever tell you to do. What is this taboo piece of advice you ask? It's simple, sleep with your male friend.

 Sexual tension makes life awkward and in most cases miserable. Can you imagine being around someone all the time and always having that feeling of "what if?". You may not even want the person in that waybut you have no clue because you're too busy dreaming about the size of his peen and if he can work the middle. Why not just try it out?

Everyone says sex complicates things. I feel that lack of sex complicates things. Men usually don't want to be your friend unless they find something attractive about you. How many men do you know that have ugly female friends? Females are the only ones that have ugly female friends and that's just because we like to look good when standing next to someone else. Men don't do that. Men only want to be surrounded with attractive women, whether she's mentally or physically attractive, he likes her and that's why he keeps her around. Most guys would never turn down sex, regardless of it's your friend. Us females, being the emotional creatures we are, if we don't release our built up energy, we'll end up falling in love for a guy unnecessarily.

This is why you get the sex out of the way. Put the feelings on the table as soon as possible. Once you have sex you'll feel one of two things. You'll either feel sigh of relief because you realize you don't really like him after all or you'll fall in love with the D. The latter hardly happens. He'll either be less than spectacular in the sack and turn you all the way off or you realize, although he's good, he's not for you.

Get all of the sexual frustration and tension out of the way immediately and realize how long your guy friend will remain your guy friend. You'll never be jealous of his girlfriends, you'll never lose him. At the very least you'll have a friend with benefits.