For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
There is a misconception that all Ballers are looking for flawless model chicks with long hair and big butts. Although that may seem like the case from the outside, it's hardly true. Most Ballers end up dating and marrying women who are average looking women. You don't have to be a size 0 waist with 40 inch hips to land a Baller. You can come as you are as long as you're equipped with the right mental.
First get it out of your mind that you know what kind of woman a Baller wants. Ballers are just regular men with a little more money, fame, or accessibility. Regular men are attracted to big women, small women, average women and super models. You have to know what YOUR Baller is attracted to. If you look at a lot of these Ballers who say they only date 10's or higher, refer back to the mother of his child and that will tell you the truth. The only Baller who will turn down a good woman for not being a Perfect 10 are the New Money Ballers who weren't used to getting play before they became famouse (Please See: French Montana). Either way, as I said before, know what YOUR BALLER likes and don't try to wrap your brain around what EVERY BALLER likes.
If you come across a Baller that only dates white girls, chances are that has always been his attraction. If you are a brown skin beauty, you are not changing his taste, so why bother? There are plenty of Ballers that want you. What they DON'T want is a complainer. They don't want a woman who sees them with a white girl and disrespects him over his personal choice. That shows weakness and insecurity. Insecurity is a turn off no matter who you are trying to attract.
Here are four things that will attract your Baller, whether you are a slim fine model chick or an average looking girl.
Decisive/Ambition - Everyone wants someone who knows what they want (decisive) and is ambitious enough to go after it. Want to know why the girls are pulling Ballers and you aren't? Because they aren't afraid. If they spot a Baller that they are attracted to they will make the first move if necessary. They will do whats needed to stand out amongst a crowd.
Security - No one wants someone who is insecure. If you know you're a heavy girl, now is not the time to nag your Baller for hanging around skinny girls. Now is not the time to cut your eyes at girls you think look better than you. Now is not the time to make comments under your breath. Your Baller will pick up on all of that. He doesn't want your jealousy. Know the fact that YOU are who he chose. Embrace that and wear it like a badge of honor.
Confidence - This goes hand in hand with security. Before a Baller ever gives you the time of day, he is checking for your self confidence. It doesn't matter if you are trying to snag him on Twitter or at a bar. Confidence is by far the best article of clothing you'll ever wear. A girl who is maybe a 6 or 7 can easily shine amongst girls who are 10's if she treats herself as a 10. Hold your head up high, stand up straight and be the 10 that you know you are. No one can tell you any different.
Assurance/Trust - Your Baller likely travels a lot. He probably can't tell the real friends from the fake friends. Doesn't know who he can trust anymore. Chances are he's been burned by friends, women and even family. He needs to know that you are not about what the others are. Some women do this by having their own money and never asking for his, some do this by being his best friend, some do this by being there whenever he needs it. Fact of the matter is, no matter how you do it he'll appreciate you for it.