So He's Cheating, What Kind Of Woman Does That Make You?

Everyone has their own theories as to why men cheat and what will keep a man from cheating. If you've ever been cheated on you've probably asked yourself time and time again if there is anything you could have done to avoid it. I have broken down the different type of "cheated on" women and why they think they were cheated on. 

 

First we have the Blame The Other Woman woman. This is the woman who believes that if the other whores (for a lack of a better word) respected the sanctity of your relationship your man wouldn't have strayed in the first place. This is the woman who feels that every chick is eyeing her man and is usually the type to fight the other woman when her man is caught cheating. She's usually the one answering his cell phone and calling back all of the chick's numbers and in most cases the man gets away with minimal damage. She believes that all women are competition and don't mind competing for a man regardless of if he is already in a relationship. 

 

Then we have the Men Are Expected To Cheat woman. This is the woman who takes a page out of Tyrese's book (click here) and believes that before a man ever steps out with another woman, it is already to be expected. She believes that nothing she could have done would have stopped him and that a dog will be a dog. Not to say that this woman will not get angry over this action, but she strongly believes that men are genetically engineered to cheat and there is nothing you can do about it. 

 

Third we have the Blame The Man woman. She is the type that believes that men should be held accountable for their actions and that men CHOOSE to cheat. She does not believe that men are genetically engineered to cheat nor does she believe that you should blame the other woman. A man is perfectly capable of turning down pu**y and if he is too weak to do so, he should be to blame. This is the woman who knows that not all men cheat but the ones that do are definitely out weighing the ones that don't. She does not call the other woman to start sh-t, she does not fight over a no good man, she may bust the windows out of his car however, because she knows that the man controls his own d-ck.

 

Lastly we have the Blame Myself woman. I believe that we all have been this woman at some point but some women blame themselves for the rest of their lives. These women feel that if they dressed better, submitted to their men more, gave him more sex or cooked and cleaned more that somehow that would have convinced him to stay. These are often the type of women that are okay with their men being jobless and laying up on the couch all day. This is okay, because she will provide and if it keeps him happy she is happy. She feels empty when he's away and will do anything to keep him. There is more of this going on than many of the other types of women.

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Comment by Sheli on April 13, 2011 at 9:15am

I'm going to go with the window busting woman (Blame The Man Woman). I think all people are capable of cheating, but you choose to cheat or not cheat. You can't "make a mistake" and cheat, there are a whole lot of conscious steps that lead up to cheating.  The excuse that women are throwing poo-nanny at them is bogus, women get thrown more dinga than men get thrown cooch.

SN: I've never busted a window, but I really want to do it, for the experience and story.

Comment by University of Smitty on April 13, 2011 at 9:17am
Good Read.  I guess I fall somewhere in between "Men are expected to cheat" and "Blame the man"  lol
Comment by Baller Alert on April 13, 2011 at 10:18am
I'm the Blame the Man woman. Men know what they are doing. The Blame the Woman girl needs help...lol.
Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 13, 2011 at 10:31am
lol @ Boss. I'm the Blame the Man Woman/I don't give a damn Woman/don't give me a disease Woman. I know I can take care of myself so I'm out.
Comment by Creative Bee on April 13, 2011 at 10:44am
I'm the Blame the Man woman as well. If he is weak, full of issues male (having a penis doesn't make you a man) it's really not mine or any other woman problem but his. Women who talk how men are wired to cheat... Sorry to bust your bubble, but we are not in caveman times anymore. Evolution tells you we are overpopulated, there is no need to procreate as much. More than that we have all kinds of STDs which is a clear sign that promiscuous types are not the fittest.
Comment by JustMe on April 13, 2011 at 10:48am
I blame er'body... To a certain extent I say I kinda expect men to cheat... Not because of genetics, but because society tells them it's oK. I blame the woman also... Nope it's not her responsibility to keep my relationship in tact, but it is her responsibility to have mote love & respect for herself... Why settle for something that belongs to someone else? If he truly loves you more than her, then he will leave her for you... And don't fall for money or kids being the reason he stays, a nigga that don't wanna be there won't be there... Now for the man... Quit falling for the okry dole you see on tv & hear in songs... Cause a bish will leave you & eff you up in the process... If you wanna hoe, don't be in a relationship & if you wanna be in a relationship, don't hoe... If you know you can't be faithful have the balls to tell your #1... she may or may not be cool with it... But hey at least you were honest...

@Sheli - this one time at band camp, me & my cousin effed up HER car cause her baby daddy was at his hoes house 2 days after my cousin gave birth...
Comment by RoyaleT on April 13, 2011 at 1:04pm

I am definitely the Blame the Man woman.  I have dealt with men that are used to the Blame Myself/ the other woman/the men's "nature" woman becuase no matter how you please him when they cheat they always use that opportunity to tell you about yourself and how much better you could be and tie that to the woman they cheated with....and for every different woman there is a different problem that he addresses until you are no longer the person that he fell in love with and uses that as an excuse to finally leave you.  Something he should have done long ago if he was unhappy lol.  That was my experience that single handedly taught me that the ONLY thing that will prevent a man from cheating is his WILL not to do so....

 

Now  I expect men to expect women to blame anyone or anything besides him and his actions.  They are dumfounded when you do that lol.

Comment by isntshelovely25 on April 13, 2011 at 2:01pm
Definitely Blame The Man woman.
Comment by Desiree' on April 13, 2011 at 8:55pm
Blame the man
Comment by Need A Sponsor on April 15, 2011 at 11:03pm
I am a Definitely Blame the Man kind of woman

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