The Morning After...One Night Stands by Lair Haven

 

Eyes meet from a simple glance.  Glances turn into stares.  Stares lead to entrancement so the dance begins.  He moves closer to where you are.  You sway instinctively into the paths you hope that he crosses.  Like a well oiled pendulum, back and forth intrigue weaves a web of smoldering curiosity that engulfs both your minds to degrees which defy mother's wise words or daddy's tales of caution. 

Your place or his?  In the car or in the bed?  Panties to the side or just take them off?

Facing each other now, what separates the beastly urges in both of you are the mere formalities of learning one another's names, age ranges and general ability to speak enough of the same language to get from point A to Z before the sun rises, or sets if you're a morning libertine.  Other than the basics, your purring and his leering are a few moments away from public indecency if you both don't decide soon whether or not to skip the main course and just smother yourselves in the most taboo sensual dessert called The One Night Stand.

Touch but not taste?  Grind but don't plunge?  Tease or just take?

It could morph from a dance that reveals much very soon.  It could emerge from a drink that flows into your lips too fast.  It could be the result of devilish suggestions from honey tipped tongues that melt across your mind in the right ways at the right times.  When the moment your mind and body achieve steadfast harmony to engage the symphony of lust, you know it because you think: "He can have some, now."  Your One Night Stand has been debated, voted on and passed through your own congress of Lady Rules and is now destined for the Hall of Skeletons in Closets.

Gentle or rough?  Loud or quietly?  Flesh or Not?

Decisions haunt your mind almost intently as lifeblood rushes through your inner thighs and the peaks of your bosom point to exactly what you want.  Your hands do spider crawls to places on him you want to ensure prove worth one night minus caution.  His hands go where you allow after you've gripped what could be something which feels like the very thing you've always imagined that could fit you the way gloves fit perfectly match hands.  It's what you want, no doubt at all.

Ride or lay back?  Quick or slow?  Pull out or leave it in? 

Only you and your fantasy know the answers.  But after the souls are exchanged, the sun rises or sets and you transform back into that lady that you are, what next?

Mental tricks may invade.  Did I go to far, too soon?  Should I have said what I said so loudly?  Does he think I do this all the time?  What kind of woman does he think that I am now?  Is he going to even call me again?  Will he call me too much?  I wonder if I should go get a check-up?  Did I make a baby last night?  Would I do it again with him?  Should I call him today or wait?

Yes, depending on how far the wizards of lust entranced your body, mind and spirit you may ask some of those previous questions after a One Night Stand.  All answers are debatable.  No answers are improbable.  One night flings leave an uncertain reality for some. 

So what do men think of women after a one night stand?

The answer may sound crude, but dumb women are left guessing or clueless. 

Smart women know exactly what men think of them after a one night stand.

If you are left guessing or even clueless about what men think of you after a one-and-done, he most likely thinks you are a untrustworthy, impressionable, undisciplined and lying ho.  Double standard?  Yes.  (The Double Standard is an entirely different blog...later for that.)

However, if you know exactly what men think of you after a one-and-done, you are a KEEPER, a very smart woman.  This means that you understand, know and saw what you wanted, took what you wanted without expectations afterwards, enjoyed it and are ok with whatever transpires or not afterwards.  Smart women don't play "hope games" with their prized possession. 

No it's not that glorious kitten between your legs, it's your mind.  Dumb women are always guessing or clueless, that's mental torture.  They play dice games with their own sanity. 

Smart women make up their minds how they intend to feel before the deed is done and they stick with it.  If more develops from a one night stand, this means that smart women met, picked and engaged men without double standards- more to enjoy again is possible. 

Dumb women guess and usually guess wrong, pick wrong and end up with more skeletons than they will ever admit. 

How do men view women after one night stands?

Women it depends on what kind of man you pull and how accurate you are in sizing up your one night stand partner.  One way to know if you were the dumb or smart woman is how you feel when or if he calls.  Men think of you as much as you accurately know their characters.

More to come on this topic...  

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Comment by luvsmoochez on October 26, 2012 at 12:28pm

I like the way this was written. Very enticing and well put together. Never had a one night stand, but if I do I will sure to be smart about it. ; )

Comment by mariedime on February 2, 2013 at 5:10pm
In my ghetto voice ....yassssssss ...... So so true ....lol
Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on February 4, 2013 at 3:10pm

"Dumb women are always guessing or clueless, that's mental torture.  They play dice games with their own sanity."

Yes! I don't know how many chicks I've known/seen driving themselves crazy and not just after a one night stand either. They drive themselves crazy trying to figure out what he's thinking about every damn thing. *shudders* Those type of women get on my last nerve. I have very little patience for them.

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