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If you've ever thought to ask yourself why black men date white women, don't worry this white girl and her boyfriend have it all figured out. Watch the video below and tell me if you agree.
Now that you have watched the video, do you think these reasons are true? Black men of BA, do you date outside of your race because you can't pull our hair in bed? Now, I don't know about you black women of BA, but my hair is sewn when it's not grown. You can pull it all day long and it's not going anywhere. Did I mention white girls wear weave too? I guess that makes her argument null and void after the first 30 seconds.
My issue with this video is it's blatant ignorance. I went on an hour long Twitter rant and I'm completely tired. I'm disappointed that the guy (as remedial as he comes off in this video) didn't think for one minute that this was NOT okay to say. He didn't stop her, in fact he laughed & encouraged her while giving her a few ideas and talking points.
The white girl is just trash, obviously living in her parents house, with ideas about black women proving she clearly has no black friends. She views black men as a prize that black women don't appreciate, citing stupid things that she heard on TV or some comedy show as valid reasons. You can't say black women don't hold black men down, when you have a majority of black women visiting their men of ANY race in prison several days a week. You have Tiny nearly losing her own freedom when T.I. was arrested, you have far too many black women being "down" to a fault.
How can you say black women only want black men when they have money, when we're they ones they are with untilthey have money? Ever heard of the saying "When he get on he'll leave your ass for a white girl"? Kanye went from Alexis to Kim Kardashian, so who's not down? She goes on to say that black women want men to do everything for them, but white women are more 50/50. Listen here Susie, just because you choose to let him drive your parents Beamer and pay for all your dates doesn't mean you are more appreciative of him. It means that black women are just a little more aware of our value. Every woman should know her worth and I know many white woman who do as well. When you know your worth, you attract what you deserve. So if you're out here giving him money and you're not getting any back Ms. White Girl, you are his sugar mama, this isn't a 50/50.
And then it's the infamous attitude argument. Black women have attitudes and thats why black men don't want us. If this true, keep in mind that black men were raised by this attitude all their lives. If we all have attitudes, you should be used to it, right? If all black women have attitudes, why is it that latin men and white men can't get enough of us? Does the attitude excite them? I need an explanation.
In the entire video a million and one ignorant things were said. The saddest part is that the young black man, child of a black woman, didn't see anything wrong with what he said. He even argues that we knock our own race every day so we shouldn't be mad when someone else does it. He says, when Chris Rock does it, it's okay, why isn't it okay for Peggy Sue. He continues to say that if you are a strong black woman you wouldn't be offended. I hope he realizes that Peggy Sue truly believes what she is saying. This video isn't called "Why black men don't date hood rats" or "Why black men only date strong black women", its about why black women aren't preferred over white women PERIOD! This has nothing to do with strong black women because never once did the video mention strong black women. Strong black women wear weaves, strong black women put up with bullsh-t and on the other side, won't. Where is the strong woman in this video? I wonder how his mother, aunts, grandma and sisters feel about this video. Amanda Jane won't be attending any of his family functions, I'm sure.
Black women, we're not undesirable. Black men and black women date and marry every day. Don't believe me, ask Jay Z and Beyonce, Will & Jada, Gabby & Dwyane etc. Black men want us and for those that don't think we're "worthy", who cares, we don't want or need them anyway. We're so down for black men that we forget there are a million and one other races out there that adore everything about us. Our curves, our lips, hair and dark skin are so desired by other races that others go to the extremes of surgery to be just like us. Men desire us so much that they will trip over themselves to get at us. I see it all the time, a dark skin black woman of 100% african decent having NO issues getting a man in a world that supposedly favors the racially ambiguous. So Susie Q, next time you think to answer why black men date white girls, get some better black people around you. You're clearly a white girl lost.
To answer the question: Why do black men date white women? Same reason I date black men, white men, latino men, asian men, indian men. Because you can and true love has no color. Skip all the stereotypes. You can find the man behind this video @jwadgallery still unaware he did anything wrong.
Comment by isntshelovely25 on April 11, 2012 at 2:30pm I tried to watch the video but only got through 2 mins. I am disgusted.
The REAL reason (some) black men date white women is because you are easy to walk all over. I can't even count how many times I've been out and seen an interracial couple and as soon as ol' white girl turned her back, her BLACK man was eyeing me. Which further proves that he's probably cheating on your ass with a black woman; therefore, he is unfaithful. You can have that.
The black men that date white women do not seek a challenge. If you were paying for my Jordans, letting me drive your whip, call you when i feel like it, I'd use your ass too. He probably doesn't take you seriously for the long-term.
I'd love to see this story a few years from now, when she's a babymama stuck with a bi-racial baby that she doesn't know how to raise. Just because he's black, does not mean he's a good man, boo-boo.
Have a seat.
Comment by DB on April 11, 2012 at 3:12pm
Comment by Ms. KissyFace on April 11, 2012 at 3:20pm There are two kinds of men that date outside of their race. There are the ones who don't care about race and the ones that do. The ones that care about race are doing it out of insecurities. I don't care who you date but do you really have to slander a whole race and gender while doing it. Women of all races are having issues with themselves and their men, it isn't just a black thing. Don't believe that hype.
Comment by C*u*t*e* on April 11, 2012 at 3:44pm It's a difference between being attracted to beauty and purposely picking a race. I've dated outside my race because of attraction. This video is them trying to find justification in them wanting to only date white women and black men. Anytime you can think of a reason why or why not to date a certain race you're foul
Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 11, 2012 at 9:41pm DB you did not call him a thin mint ass? LOL
Comment by glamazon on April 11, 2012 at 11:08pm Oh. I see where he was going with this Megan Fox faux phish; talking about "Black girls have a reason to hate." So all BW wear weave, and white girls don't? Tombout we spend $300 on hair. Umm, white hair salons charge that JUST TO cut & color. Why does she even talk the way she talks, since she's white? You know what...
I'm appalled that he is egging her on to actually GIVE HIM reasons why dating a WW like her is better.
Comment by DB on April 12, 2012 at 4:27pm @ CC yes I definitely did because that's all that came to mind lol "chocolate on the outside, white on the inside" and in his case, white and nasty on the inside!!
Comment by Lovelymeeh on April 13, 2012 at 2:45am
Comment by Kirk delaney miller on April 13, 2012 at 9:12am
Comment by Eleven8 on April 13, 2012 at 10:01am Kirk......i don't know you, so I'm going to let you cook. But please take a few minutes to exit this comments section before one of these other BA ladies reads you like the Quran...and if THEY don't, I will.
Peace.
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