Comment by blackfujones on December 12, 2011 at 8:59pm

you know whats funny...is hearing how someone can tell you how they know the opposite sex and vice versa..when in actuality none of us really know s***.  Just like someone saying if you think like a man you'll only get penis..and then they'll give 89707 accounts from so called friends and family that its true.  But then they'll never realize that small fraction that they spoke about is only a drop in the bucket. In regards to how many people out there actually are like that...so basically its all b.s. Do what YOU think is best, and come up with your own formula in finding happiness with someone else.  Because whether you like it or not, somebody out here has found refuge in the idea of "thinking like a man ....or thinking like a woman". So do whatever it is to get ahead

Comment by Baller Alert on December 13, 2011 at 7:24am

Why don't you write a column for Baller Alert Blackfujones?

Comment by hk on December 15, 2011 at 8:25am

I think you're missing the mark...I don't like Steve Harvey, personally, but the phrase 'think like a man, act like a lady' has merit.  Women don't understand how men think---thinking like a man is not the same as acting like a man.  If you try to understand how men think, then you can modify your behavior.  For example, women think that sleeping with a man gives her dominion over him---not true.  A man can sleep with you, and not give a damn about you.  Women, however, are emotional creatures who have a hard time distinguishing the difference between sex and love.  That's why the side chick never goes out of style--if you settle for less, that's exactly what you'll get.  Look at Avonte (Tough Love, Miami)...she was the mistress for 9 YEARS--that's nine years she'll never get back.  What does she have to show for it--bragging rights?  GTFOOH!  He's still married, and the mistress would say 'she's stupid for staying'--that may be true, but you (mistress) are stupid for playing second fiddle.  Women make things hard on themselves and hard on other women.  Think like a lady, carry yourself like a lady, and understand your worth as a woman. 

Comment by Creative Bee on December 15, 2011 at 11:08am

we do think different and we can't imitate one another thinking, just like we can't imitate a penis. 

Here is a study http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/2162132/Men...

Our brain just works different. I think woman should always act like a woman, just be smart about choices and that will save a lot of problems, with men including.

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