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TIP 1: HOW TO BE AN ALPHA FEMALE
"An alpha female is many things including a woman unafraid to use, and sometimes, exploit her femininity to get her way with men or seal a business deal."
You know that girl who always manages to get to the front of the line, or the one who isn’t the prettiest but seems to be at the hottest table surrounded by A-list ballers. She’s the girl walking off the court with her man, while you are in the stands hating. We’ve all been there.
But you don’t have to stay there. What she is doing is simply using her God gifted talents of manipulation and the power of her feminine ways. When people hear the word “manipulate” they think it’s a bad thing, but for an alpha female it’s just part of the math. She doesn’t make anyone do anything, but she makes it harder to resist.
If you’re looking for the wealthy baller, you have to stand out for more than your fat booty and tiny waist. You have to stand out for more than your long weave and pretty skin. You have to eventually open you mouth and it shouldn’t be to swallow. You have to talk in a way that gets men like these to listen. You will also need to control other women and coax them so that they don’t see you as a threat. Other women can be major blockers and ballers use them to fend off the groupies. Anyway, an alpha female knows there’s more power to her than what’s between her legs. She goes about getting her baller’s attention a little different. Other women may say that “she acts like she better than us” or “she thinks she is somebody.” And it’s true. If they are not saying this, then you are doing something wrong. It's not about using sex for the alpha female, she wants more like in carats. An alpha female doesn’t jump to be noticed by a baller, but she sits very still.
An alpha-female believes she has what it takes, and is proud of her femininity and all it offers the world, for she sees herself as a gift to the world, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. And she loves every bit of being a woman, not just a lady. If she chooses to have sex on the first date with her baller, it’s because she wanted to, and believe me it is part of a great master plan. Her greatest weapon is not her sex, but her charm.
Men are the most gullible of creatures, and a woman who knows how to take care of them, will get very far–at home and at work. Go to Tip 1: How To Be An Alpha Female on my blog for more on how to do this. It’s not like we’re all born with this, unfortunately.
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Comment by CLEM on November 18, 2008 at 11:39am -
amen!
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Comment by LaLa_Mz_LA on November 18, 2008 at 11:44am -
Ohhh, So thats how they do it! Whenever I would see a not so pretty female with an A List baller I just figured maybe they grew up together or sumthin. Or maybe they were high school sweethearts. I guess that shows me how much I know...
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Comment by MRSBIG on November 18, 2008 at 11:46am -
@lala it could be that, too, but there are many women who are close to ballers that happened to position themselves that way, they didnt know him a year ago! LOL
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Comment by babydoll on November 18, 2008 at 12:12pm -
LOL @ Other women may say that “she acts like she better than us” or “she thinks she is somebody.”
If I had a dime for everytime I heard THAT s***, ballers would be trying to trick ME!!!
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Comment by Blu on November 18, 2008 at 12:29pm -
Nice post.
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Comment by Chocolate Allure on November 18, 2008 at 12:51pm -
Alpha woman down...It has many advantages, but sometimes....a girl just wants to eat a samich and drink a Heniken light out the bottle without her friends checking her for fever :(
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Comment by she-who-rocks on November 18, 2008 at 2:29pm -
I am not sure you can learn to be an alpha female. You can possess her traits, but I think it is who you are what you are born with, it is not learned it. You have to think too long you aren't alpha. it comes naturally. Some have it some don't.
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Comment by Holly-Would on November 18, 2008 at 3:09pm -
Lol cocoa allure...
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Comment by LMS on November 18, 2008 at 9:18pm
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I agree with SWR! You can pretend all day! It's like the difference between a person who can sing naturally and a person who was taught to sing. Apples and oranges!
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Funny you used a pic of her! Why is she on a the damn court?! LOL!
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