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TIP 4: HOW TO BE ALPHA FEMALE
An alpha female can be ruthless, more so than a man, because you never see it coming, she’ll smile, then cut ‘ya…
Alpha female and Vogue magazine editrix Anna Wintour is known just as much for her infamous “aloof” and “detached” personality as she is for her infamous sunglasses that are just within millimeters of her reach in the above photo.
An alpha female is not someone you want to cross. Being that she is unique, you won’t see her sweat or hear her cussing out anybody. She is calm, collected, but calculating. Emotional outbursts and neck twisting threats are not her thing. That is associated too much with typical female responses. She maintains her togetherness or poise as much and for as long as she can. She doesn’t believe in pay back, but she does believe in back pay. She will go to the ends of the earth if she has to and destroy you through fear or some other method that will surprise you. For instance, one woman I interviewed a few years back was a producer at a popular tv news magazine. She blocked the promotion of an alpha female in the office who was more than qualified.
Eventually, the alpha female chick was fired, and not promoted. The woman in the office responsible for this was relieved that’s she no longer had to deal with her. Low and behold, 2 years later, she runs into the alpha female, who is the woman her husband left her for. She had no idea who the other woman was until then. The alpha female and the husband have been married for 10 years and going strong. It was calculated and it was planned. Please do not play. It worked, whether we agree with it or not.
Of course, there are alpha females who may not go to these extreme measures, but an alpha female can be your greatest ally or worst enemy. She has a few enemies of her own and keeps them very close to her. In fact, she’ll smile in your face, and in the next scowl. She doesn’t go around fighting little battles. She actually lets lots of things slide. Alpha females are never about appealing to the masses. She doesn’t sugarcoat anything or try to be politically correct about her motives. She knows life hurts sometimes, and sometimes, we can’t all do it the right way.
You would never find her busting out a man’s window or copping his identity and sellng it to a man named Gustavo in Mexico for a few stacks. She would never do anything illegal, or at least avoid it as much as possible. But she may try another covert method or see Mama Clara up in the Blue Mountains of Jamaica to get some “advice” with a little “love spell.” She only fights the wars, as long and arduous as they may be. She isn’t about being right or wrong, but winning—all the time.
If you’re an alpha female in a tough situation always weigh the rewards and against the consequences, calculate your efforts, then proceed with caution, and a smile.
For more tips and other articles please go to Alphanista™.
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Comment by Denise on November 24, 2008 at 5:29pm -
So we've met.....
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Comment by kadydid on November 24, 2008 at 11:13pm -
I love it.
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Comment by Mz. Nikki on November 24, 2008 at 11:31pm -
Great blog...
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Comment by MRSBIG on November 24, 2008 at 11:57pm -
thanks Ladies I knew ya'll would understand!
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Comment by CLEM on November 25, 2008 at 1:11am -
yes yes~
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Comment by she-who-rocks on November 25, 2008 at 8:18am -
Nice post. What makes an alphafemale superior is her instinct.
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Comment by troublesome on November 25, 2008 at 6:07pm -
What amazes me is when an Alphafemale asserts herself she's called a "B****" or any other derrogatory word.
The neck rolling, finger snapping, teeth sucking (you know what that is...don't front) and cussing out..also known as the "Shaniqua complex" (no offense to those named Shaniqua) is how a lot of women regardless of race resort to handling problems. I learned a long time ago, remain a lady always and as the words of Notorious BIG...."don't you know them killas move in silence and violence?"
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Comment by pretty poison on November 26, 2008 at 10:01pm -
So true...I can't count how many times people thought I was a punk/timid because I chose to bide my time knowing that even a garbage can gets a steak once in awhile (evil grin)
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Comment by Holly-Would on November 26, 2008 at 10:46pm -
Lol Mrs Big, lol...some women don't get it, they think when a person laughs it off its a weak response...but they could be gathering information about the company you where you work, or finding out the management info for the residence where you live... so they can do what they need to...
LC has passed your book onto to me, I'll let you know what I think about it as I'm reading it...she said its good!
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Comment by Lexi J on February 16, 2013 at 6:45pm -
I guess I'm an Alpha female then! Cuz like @pretty_poison said, the steak will eventually come and I've had the "steak" come to me on quite a few occasions lol Even got it delivered once hahahaha
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