Comment by Candy on April 27, 2011 at 12:15pm

Nancy is unreal. She wants to be the women in Jims life only. If Jim stood up to her and let her know that she needs to start respecting his women then I think she wouldn't act like that. But he let's her run ram-pet and do what she pleases. If I dated a man and I did not get along with his mother I don't think I would care much. As long as she kept her distance.I'm a grown women and know how to act accordingly when I don't care for someone. As long as we both are respectful towards each other we should be OK.  I been around allot of people I don't like so what don't change nothing in my life.

Comment by luvsmoochez on April 27, 2011 at 12:16pm

It is important to try your best to get along with the mom (or mother figure) in a man's life. I have been lucky for the most part, but I did have one ex that mom's hates me. She liked me initially, but when she learned that I actually had my own mind. She wanted to control everything and so no matter how I tried to balance that it wasnt going to work. She couldnt run my household and hers. Sometimes there's nothing you can do, but the best bet is to try.

 

Comment by Sheli on April 27, 2011 at 12:59pm

I've only had one of my exes mothers hate me. I didn't do anything to her it was was simply b/c she had a bond with his previous girlfriend. Me & his mom never had any major confrontation we just didn't talk to one another. Whenever I came over she'd make it point to talk about how wonderful his ex-girlfriend was and she'd point out how different the two of us were. I remember she needed her hair done to go to a wedding and it damn near KILT (yes I said Kilt=killed) her to ask me to do her hair. I did it for her, but I made sure I dropped the curlers on her ear, just so she'd remember who the phuck I was, LOL

Comment by University of Smitty on April 27, 2011 at 2:34pm

lol@ sheli

 

I never had that problem.  Everybody's momma loved me; however, my momma hated everybody I've ever dated. 

Comment by Baller Alert on April 27, 2011 at 2:57pm

Never had that prob...

Comment by JustMe on April 27, 2011 at 3:23pm

My ex mother in law hated that I wasn't a hoodrat... We had a love/hate relationship... They are a family of f****** (literally) and she hated that I didn't screw around when we had problems... But she to this day will tell you I was the best thing to happen to her son...

Now for my mom & Sis in law it's the other way around... I'll tell anyone that my mom is a lunatic... But she loves my lil brother and is nice to whoever he brings home... But my nieces mom still holds a grudge cause my mom was agged when she got pregnant... But anyway...
So I guess you either try to get along or schedule the wedding when most of his family can't/won't be there...

Comment by tru2this on April 27, 2011 at 5:50pm

Most of the guys I've date have come from very hood families so when they first meet me it's like "Who the f*** is this uppity b****" lol but then they usually warm up to me when they see we have a lot of similarities. Like my current man, his mother didn't like me at all she expected me to be like this health food nut and she assumed I was a vegetarian lol but once I cleaned her chitterlings and cooked them better than she would I was in lol

Comment by DiamondDistrict on April 27, 2011 at 10:52pm

Refer her to a dating site or assist her in finding a man of her own. This type of behavior usually occur in mothers who rely on their sons as a primary source of income, and it doesn't help if she is not in a serious relationship herself. 

 

I agree -never disrespect her and it would be ideal for the guy to put his mom in check. I would def be looking for the exit sign if it got to intense :)

Comment by University of Smitty on April 28, 2011 at 9:49am

Totally agree about the primary source of income and no relationship of her own.

Comment by MissBling on April 28, 2011 at 11:53am

I don't believe that you should ever disrespect the mother. It is important to build some type of relationship with her. The same goes for him and your mom too tho'. I went through hell with one of my ex's mom but I never lost my cool and till this day she still loves me.

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