What Do You Think Of A Man That Only Has Female Friends?

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When I think of friendships between men I think of a brother hood. A bunch of frat brothers sitting around and talking sports. I think about barbershops, basketball games and other overly masculine and macho things that guys do. But what do we think about seemingly straight men who have all female friends?

 

My first thought is to assume that he isn't quite as straight as he'd like people to believe he was. You are friends with people who share similar thoughts as you, people you identify more with. So if you identify more with women's fashion and lifestyle, It's safe to assume that this is the primary reason you enjoy the company of a woman. Not to say that he is gay, but he is definitely a lot more feminine than the average sports talking, macho man. Would I come to this man if I needed protection? Probably not. I would go to him if I needed a buddy to go shopping with me, however. He definitely serves a purpose.

 

Another reason it's safe to assume a man would have nothing but female friends is that he loves the drama and gossip that comes with having all female friends. Let's face it, there are many times that me as a female myself, would like to disassociate myself with the female gender due to the massive amount of drama some women tend to bring. Oddly enough there are people who enjoy the drama and seem to always welcome it. They migrate towards the women who are always involved in the gossip and somehow inject themselves into it. Other men take notice of this and avoid the "male gossiper" due to the fact that they don't want to be associated with the drama. They hear enough of the gossip from their girlfriends at home. 

 

Lastly, theres a small percentage of men I feel have all female friends because they are players! Their suave persona attracts a lot of women so women can't help but to spend time with them. She uses him as a stand-in when her boyfriend isn't acting right and he plays the "BFF" role until eventually someone catches feelings and the friendship goes horribly wrong. It's a small percentage but it happens. 

 

Ladies, what do you think of a man who has all female friends? Could you see yourself dating a man like that?

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Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 18, 2011 at 12:25pm
I agree with you post except to add male escort to the mix too. And no, I could not date a guy like this. Like you said, women breed drama. His momma and sisters are all the females I need to contend with.
Comment by nycchickadee on April 18, 2011 at 12:25pm
A man that only has female friends is gay!
Comment by Eleven8 on April 18, 2011 at 1:15pm
I forgot all about the male escort! Thanks @ CCDreamer
Comment by isntshelovely25 on April 18, 2011 at 1:55pm
tried talking to one, then it dawned on me that he had a grip of homegirls. dude was too sensitive. couldnt do it.
Comment by Eleven8 on April 18, 2011 at 2:04pm
I've noticed that too, they tend to take on the characteristics of the females they hang out with...including the sensitivity and emotionalism.
Comment by Babydoll on April 18, 2011 at 2:06pm
I have had different experiences with straight men with all female friends. THEY WERE ALL WHORES. All those "best friends" were old f*** that he just happened to remain cool with, it is an easy front for whoreish men. They will call u insecure for not being able to trust him around all those women, and he is actually doing EXACTLY what you dreaded. Either way, pretending to be straight or is straight, a dude with all females as friends is a red flag and a hell no!
Comment by Desiree' on April 18, 2011 at 2:06pm
@nycchickadee exactly
Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 18, 2011 at 2:17pm
lmao @ Babydoll, that's the truth!
Comment by Eleven8 on April 18, 2011 at 2:22pm
yep! man whores keep plenty female friends as a way to keep lots of ladies at his disposal...he aint slick lol
Comment by Creative Bee on April 18, 2011 at 2:51pm
agreed with all ladies. Just like girls who say all their friends are men, men with most of their friends women have some issues

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