"What do men with money and power want from women?"

Crossing paths with many financially stable men and ambitious women, I've seen the extremes of needs/wants on both sides of this topic.  Which leads me to ultimately conclude that two major factors must be considered before anyone can answer such a broad question.

Factor 1: An individual's personal beliefs, values and standards related to relationships is the starting place.

Factor 2: When individuals bring Factor 1 into contact with others, the compatibility between parties dictates whether or not the prospective relationship satisfies the couple's definition of fulfillment.

What rich men look for are women that are not only comfortable with their own "Factor 1 Reality", but women that know how to bring their own truth into another's reality in a way that supplements what they both feel is a good relationship for them. 

I chuckle at women that simply don't want to accept that being "independent and self-sufficient" does not have to exclude men.  Some women really do need a man to be happy.  What's wrong with that?  Not everyone is meant to be strong and alone just as not everyone is made to be a successful business person or politician.  Women with too much to prove also display major insecurities about being vulnerable in ways that women who are not ashamed of needing men do not.  So what do rich men want from women?

Ladies that are not ashamed to be vulnerable, honest and most of all, interesting and friendly.  As long as a woman is comfortable with her answers for Factors 1 and 2, she will be comfortable being vulnerable, honest, interesting and friendly.  Not to say all "regular" women don't understand this fact, but it's been my experience that women living the fast life understand what rich men want and are willing to support such wants and needs- while "regular" women are busy lecturing these men about "what they should" versus what they actually want. 

I had a woman comment once, "Would President Obama date a ho, stripper or groupie?"

To that I say, we have no idea how Michelle gets down in private with her hubby.  What makes people think that educated, high performing members of society that have achieved admirable success beyond the reach of most people- don't get off on something

"A woman in the streets but a freak in the bed" is a saying based on the premise of "balance."  How much a woman can balance her "lady" and "inner ho" is key.  Some men want more "ho" than lady, some want more lady than "ho."  What rich men want is a woman that won't try to force him to choose one over the other!

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Comment by Vivian Lee on March 8, 2011 at 7:04pm

My girl friend, who is a stripper told me about this book.  I will definately have to check it out. I totally agree with what Lair is saying here in reference to how we view what a high achieving man would want.  I'm of the opinion that our first lady turned out our president doggy style long ago.  Every time we saw them on the campaign trail he was smacking her on the ass.

 

 We loose perspective as we get older and maybe forget who these men might have been before they became millionaires.  They were the nerd in your math class who never got the girl, or the super dedicated athlete who spent all their time practicing, or the guy who won the science fair every year.  These men spend a great deal of time working to achieve wealth.  They are craving something totally outside that world. At the same time they want to be able to take you around there friends and family.  It's nothing wrong with freeing your sexuality in the name of success.

Comment by Morgane Lux on March 8, 2011 at 9:05pm

All very good points Lair.  I've seen this first hand but even if I just stopped to think about it ~ a wealthy man is in the habit of getting what he wants either by working for it or simply buying it.  This is a man who has embodied his power, not just in business but in their personal lives as well.  

A woman who demands that they make a choice simply does not fit with their MO, why should they have to choose, if they want it they go after it.  That is not to say that these men are beyond compromise and that a woman should cater to them on all fronts.  That's isn't what I am saying at all.  If you go in playing yourself it's safe to say that you will get played. Relationships are built on compatibility, and if you want that compatibility to be real then you need to be real.

As for the more sensual aspect, who doesn't want their partner to be open with them, completely open.  The concept of holding back, especially when you are in a committed relationship, just seems like playing games.  I think that too often women decide to have sex but not to get too freaky.  Maybe if you can't get too open with that partner you shouldn't be having sex.

Comment by Ph@tty on March 8, 2011 at 10:56pm
How is this different from a poor man?
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Someone asked me to bump this...

Comment by James Smith on November 27, 2013 at 5:21pm

I was prepared to read fuckery but this actually makes sense

Comment by golden on May 29, 2014 at 7:54pm

This is actually a great read!

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