WHEN IT'S OKAY TO HAVE SEX WITH THE BOSS

Several months ago, I did a survey of 300 women that showed almost 64% of them have slept with their boss. That's a whole lotta women acting up at work. These days, even so much as repeated second glances can be grounds for filing a sexual harassment suit. There’s no dating at work. If it is, it has to be hidden. But what to do if you work for a wealthy company with a wealthy boss or CEO? He's checking you out and you him. Would you call HR?
Sleeping with the boss is “okay” for any one of the following reasons:

1. There’s an obvious physical attraction that you both have discussed before; it is mutual and agreed
2. You have a guaranteed written promotion filed with HR that can change your career and income tax bracket forever. This isn’t jockeying for peanuts, but a total coup for your career and lifestyle
3. He’s pumping lots of “bonuses” in your checking acct on a regular basis, while everyone else has to wait until the holidays

Sure, folks may think sleeping around for promotion is a bad thing. It can be, if you’ve done it all wrong. Here’s how you mess up:

1. Slept with more than 1 boss at the same company (men talk)
2. Slept with the boss for extra transit checks (peanuts)
3. Slept with the boss because you think he may “look out for you” (verbal agreements are bad)

Proceed with caution. Do not try to manipulate a man or use the law in your favor. In many cases, it backfires, leaving you jobless and black listed. Use the law if your mental stability is at stake and you feel unsafe. No one wants to be harassed in a literal sense. If you are, definitely seek outside counsel. This is only for the ladies who like to play “secret santa” with the boss. Sorry, not everyone wants to be a role model for women, or has to be.

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Comment by Baller Alert on October 31, 2008 at 3:53pm
I think sleeping with your boss will eventually end up bad every time...
Comment by OUT OF CONTROL on October 31, 2008 at 4:18pm
Sleeping with anybody you work with is never a good look....What if it's WACK??? Then you gotta see his ass everyday. OH GOD...
Comment by Satsumi on November 1, 2008 at 4:34pm
Did it in the disabled toilet and every possible place at work. No one ever knew till this day. It depends on how u handle ya biz. I personally would not repeat it though. Never ish where u eat.
Comment by Busy Signal aka $picey on November 1, 2008 at 5:10pm
This will be taking a huge risk! These 2 left a text trail. LOL
Comment by MKym on November 1, 2008 at 9:48pm
They just had an article in the Wall Street Journal about this last week. I would never do it, because if word gets out you can automatically become the loose coworker willing to sleep with the boss to get ahead. I wouldnt want to put my career on the line for no man!
Comment by StatetoStateConnect.com on November 1, 2008 at 9:54pm
1,2 and 3 are all correct answers. I know lot's of women will give powdered puff answers so as to make themselves look good but the real truth is that if there is an opportunity at the end of the offer most people will take it. There are a couple of deal breakers for me. 1). Would be if he is married, I dont do married men. 2). If he refuses to wear a condom......

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Comment by Chocolate Drop on November 3, 2008 at 11:36am
Never mix business with pleasure....it will never work!!!!!

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