WHEN YOUR BALLER CHEATS...DON'T KILL HIM..WALK AWAY


Snapped on Lifetime is one of my favorite shows. Please don't ask me why. We have all snapped at one point in time. In one split second your anger can turn into a nightmare.

I caught the Nikki Redmond story and it hit home. Nikki was a girl that was in love. A smart girl...she finished Spelman college in three years and became a teacher. She was a runner-up in the Miss Savannah pageant.

One problem..she was dating a two-timing man by the name of Kevin Shorter. Nikki said he was abusive..(don't know if they proved that). Kevin proposed to her...after the two were engaged for three months Nikki found out that Kevin was engaged to another girl (he bought both of them rings). Nikki approaches Kevin and the other girl and Kevin started screaming things like "you are nothing to me". Nikki shot Kevin in the leg - Nikki claimed self defense. Complications at the hospital had Kevin bleeding internally for three days and he passed.

Nikki was charged with murder but was later acquitted...

In my opinion..she probably did shoot him in a jealous rage. Our emotions get the best of us sometimes. For a man to ask a female to marry him and to find out he is engaged to another female is foul. By no means did Kevin Shorter deserve to die.

Ladies..we have to get in control of our emotions. Learn to walk away from these triflin men. When I heard the news of Kandi's ex being passing from being hit in the head with a bottle I was shocked but it also humbled me. I have thrown a few bottle or two at people. I have done things that I do not even want to post on this blog. It could have turned very ugly and my life could have been changed forever.

These men out here are not worth it...if they dog the hell out of you just walk away..and heal.

To the fellas: stop playing with women emotions. If you still want to play and be disrespectful please watch Snapped and watch how many wives and girlfriends SNAP and kill their boyfriends/husbands.

Be careful out there...anger management.

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Tags: kevin, nikki, redmond, relationships, shorter

Comment by Sunshine Jones on October 9, 2009 at 9:10am
I don't think she meant to kill him, she shot him in the leg. I understand where she was coming from, it could have been me.
Comment by Baller Alert on October 9, 2009 at 9:16am
Could have been me too...I have kirked before. When men have you thinking one way and then disrespect you...you will snap. You can't believe that you have been with a guy that you really don't know. It's almost like sleeping with the enemy.
Comment by Siren on October 9, 2009 at 9:22am
Great point Boss.. The price you may have to pay after making an irrational emotional decision usually is never worth it. Controlling your emotions is a sign of maturity as I have learned.... it wassomething I was once not very good at. For my own good I had to learn better.
Comment by Sheli on October 9, 2009 at 9:34am
I Love SNAPPED!!! I agree wholeheartedly with your ending comments to 'us' Ladies. A snap decision can be the difference between life and death or prison, and it's not worth it, your heart will heal and you'll live to love again. Good post :-)
Comment by Denise on October 9, 2009 at 9:42am
That's why it's called SNAPPED......lord knows I have before.....you have to walk away at the first sign, because when you wake up from the black-out. You could be in jail or worse : ( Sad story either way
Comment by Kitten on October 9, 2009 at 12:18pm
Very good post!!! How do you handle when someone you love dearly say hurtful things out of anger?
Comment by The real vixxen on October 9, 2009 at 12:20pm
I cant agree w you more boss w the statement sleeping w the enemy!! Its so hard to find out the one you love is not who you believed them to b and they can just turn on you and b so evil! i kno id like to toss a 3 ppl off a bridge but im LEARNING to bow out w grace and walk away
Comment by The GunnAr Management Group, LLC on October 9, 2009 at 12:57pm
Everytime I read or hear a story like this, my blood boils. It takes me back to a time when I too felt like beating the sh*t out of a ninja. But I have grown and learned so much about me - that now I try very hard to become what I want in my life. Men cheat! Period! We as women, unfortunately have to except that they will look at other women, pornography and flirt - it's in their nature; they're predators and they are visual beings that can't help that testosterone that drives their emotions and actions. Once we grasp this, understand it and realize that when we're in a bad situation, just walk away (I know it's hard) but life goes on and it get better. It gets easier to deal with men (I'm told by my mother) as we get older. Right now, we're all young and want a man to be faithful and love us. Remember, we attract what we are and where we are in life. Don't let a man allow you to make decision that affect your future -because they a**** don't.
Comment by JustMe on October 9, 2009 at 1:02pm
I love, love, love Snapped!!!! My ex hated that I watched it, swore I was trying to figure out how to kill him... LOL.
But at the end of the day, I have too much to live for & NO ONE is worth it. Now, fck with one of my boys, and there's gonna be trouble...

p.s. I strongly believed that 911's fck up, saved Nikki's hide...
Comment by Kitten on October 9, 2009 at 1:27pm
@TGAMG,LL I disagree with all men cheat!!

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