WHY DO WE IGNORE THE OBVIOUS SIGNS? HE JUST DOESN'T LIKE YOU LIKE THAT....


Women ignore the obvious signs that men are just not into them. We usually try to analyze why they don't call..or why did they react this way. My daddy told me if a man really wants you...you will not be able to keep him away. We all try to make it is something that it is not...especially if we like the guy.

Here are some signs that he really doesn't like you like that:

*He never returns your call when he says he will

*He doesn't respect your time. (i.e. cancels at the last minute, doesn't show up at all and calls later with an excuse)

*You never see him before sundown even on the weekends.

*He never spends the night

*You have never been to his home.

*It has been a year and you haven't met his family

*He has an excuse as to why he can't attend events with your family/friends.

*He forgets your birthday/Valentine's Day/Christmas/ New Years

*Never makes plans he just calls when he is free.

*Never calls just to talk

*Doesn't call when he is traveling

*Doesn't call to make sure you made it home safe

*Doesn't call to say goodnight

*Majority of communication is via text

*You never meet his boys.

*When he introduces you he says" Oh, this is just_____"

*He says things like "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now"

*He shows up to your house unannounced after midnight

Feel free to add...

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Comment by EvaW on August 18, 2009 at 6:55pm
Calls you the wrong name (because he is dating other women... and you really don't have a real relationship (except the one you made up in your head). All you really have with this man is FRIENDSHIP.
Comment by EvaW on August 18, 2009 at 7:00pm
If you (as a "couple") ever get to spend time with his boys: he treats you like you don't exsist or openly disrespects you infront of his friends.
Comment by EvaW on August 18, 2009 at 7:05pm
You ALWAYS pay for your food/drinks on your "date" with this man, because he has absolutely no intension of paying for your dinner on this occasion or on any other occasion for that matter.
Comment by EvaW on August 18, 2009 at 7:06pm
He constantly refers to you as a friend. Even in conversasions between you two.
Comment by EvaW on August 18, 2009 at 7:08pm
Sorry for the rant... *a lil embarrassed* & sorry if any of the s*** above was already on Boss' list.
Comment by Baller Alert on August 18, 2009 at 7:17pm
LOL@Eva
Comment by OfficialGroupie on August 18, 2009 at 7:39pm
cute list. so many women need to look at this list daily. im tired of hoes asking me about niggas who aint bout s*** and not feeling them like that . and it be the same damn questions too. "why doesnt he call me back". "why did he stand me up". im always like girl "he is just not that into you".
Comment by Felicia Filly Transporta on August 18, 2009 at 7:45pm
It's Unfortunate that many women choose to ignore these many signs and think they can change that man, and some women were just never exposed to what a healthy relationship is suppose to be and get caught up and do not realize that the man is really not in to them. Many women search for that perfect relationship and never get it because they keep falling for the same horrible habits. However if you are a female that is just dating and understand that a particular relationship is what it is you will do you when you are in his presence, and still have you cake and eat it to. I learn you can't really advise people about relationships they have to learn for themselves. So maybe soon they will realize that he is just not that into you.
Comment by Felicia Filly Transporta on August 18, 2009 at 7:48pm
And even if you are just dating someone and are not committed some of these things listed are just lack of manners so women if you choose to date men that lack manners you will get some of these reactions. Any guy with manners and a decent up bringing and respect for women in general wont do some of these things listed even if you are just his side chick jump off booty call etc., females you will be treated the way you let someone treat you point blank.
Comment by PNut Gallery on August 18, 2009 at 7:49pm
very good! I have a friend who just cant get over this dude. And its like she cant see that he just not as into her as she is into him!!
Some of the very things you wrote he has definitely done to her!
Im definitely going to pass this on

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