Ladies, why do you always have to prove how strong you are to your men? Why do you always have to make the man feel less than a man by the way you talk to him? Why can't there ever be a time where he asks you to do something and you do it with no hesitation or complaints?
These are some of the questions that run through my mind on a daily basis. Especially when I talk to my male friends about why they don't date black women.
About 95% of my male friends are black and about 80% of them don't date black women. When I asked them why they said black women are too loud, ghetto and don't know how to submit to their man...
I completely agree...
When watching my friend's relationships and watching some of my friends I can attest to all of what was said that day. If you would just sit down and listen to what your man needed and stopped trying to wear the pants all the time then you wouldn't be lonely come 'Cuffin Season'
I'm going to compile a list of suggestions and you can do as you please with the information.
1. SHUT UP!
Your man does not want to hear talking ALL the time. Some things are just best left unsaid.
2. STOP NAGGING!
The more you nit pick at him the farther away you push him.
3. SERVICE HIM
I mean this in the most respectful way...you need to get on your knees and do the deed. A well sucked man is a happy man.
Now I know this is a very short list but I can't give you everything. Some things you have to learn on your own.
I am not saying that you should take it ALL the way back to the 1940s but it never hurts to take it there sometimes.
This is coming from a woman of experience.