Why Won't Black Women Submit To Their Man?



Ladies, why do you always have to prove how strong you are to your men? Why do you always have to make the man feel less than a man by the way you talk to him? Why can't there ever be a time where he asks you to do something and you do it with no hesitation or complaints?

These are some of the questions that run through my mind on a daily basis. Especially when I talk to my male friends about why they don't date black women.

About 95% of my male friends are black and about 80% of them don't date black women. When I asked them why they said black women are too loud, ghetto and don't know how to submit to their man...

I completely agree...

When watching my friend's relationships and watching some of my friends I can attest to all of what was said that day. If you would just sit down and listen to what your man needed and stopped trying to wear the pants all the time then you wouldn't be lonely come 'Cuffin Season'

I'm going to compile a list of suggestions and you can do as you please with the information.

1. SHUT UP!
Your man does not want to hear talking ALL the time. Some things are just best left unsaid.

2. STOP NAGGING!
The more you nit pick at him the farther away you push him.

3. SERVICE HIM
I mean this in the most respectful way...you need to get on your knees and do the deed. A well sucked man is a happy man.

Now I know this is a very short list but I can't give you everything. Some things you have to learn on your own.

I am not saying that you should take it ALL the way back to the 1940s but it never hurts to take it there sometimes.

This is coming from a woman of experience.

@MizzBozz88

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Tags: men, relationship, submit

Comment by MrShady on September 29, 2010 at 5:11pm
I didnt even read the article...Im just wondering...why is always about someone submitting...Ughhh...
Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on September 29, 2010 at 5:23pm
MrShady, I <3 you :)

SN: I hate this painting 'black women' with the same brush. The title should be revised to say 'some black women'.
Comment by JustMe on September 29, 2010 at 5:36pm
now the whole loud & ghetto is is outta line... but the rest I agree with... I didn't always, but I do now...
Comment by Beautifulone on September 29, 2010 at 5:52pm
BLAH BLAH BLAH
I call BS - excuses to be mind manipulated
The same stereotypes are used over and over to reference all black women
My point is this - brain washing is a powerful tool

Let me tell you why... I see loud mouthed Spanish and ghetto acting white woman all the time – nobody says a word about them just us-our men mainly to top it off !

My friends ex dates nothing but white/spanish and tell me why he has a criminal record larger than he did when he dated black women????
Because they know how to "submit" and behave"! That old "black women are ghetto, fat, and loud line is expired.”

Maybe people don't watch these reality shows but it proved that ALL woman can be loud - and that would include the loud ass man who is calling them out

If black people cannot figure out the real reason by now - something is wrong with their life interpretation skills

Secondly, coincidence happen 1 every 1 billion times - so how is it possible that the same thing your slave master conspired you to do is done! Today, right now, and ya'll proud about it! Hunn - how did that happen????

Back in slavery time, when teaching each other how to properly enslave blacks the main purpose was to "keep the black woman and men apart - at all cost - separate them and then show the woman what they will do to her counterpart(sons) is she does not behave"

Now we got a generation of woman that survived the "war" and all our non supportive fathers can say is "shut up and don't be so strong" - Come again...strong is the reason why your off spring eats dinner and has clothes!
Once our men realize they are being played for modern day slaves, used and abused by society and the direct target of the "American" conspiracy maybe then they will respect our strength that is needed!
A weak woman or weak support system would not have survived the "American dream" had it not been for the strength you possess that was been passed on to your daughters! Now you slap us in the face with it!

Only problem is you feel comfortable trying to mix in with the masses; that way you don’t have to face the real truth about what is going on around you and your culture!

So in a sense they have stopped brain washing you and you have learned to do it to yourself. Kind of like black on black crime, do it enough and it rubs off ; we will destroy ourselves due to repetitive behavior forming a manipulation of the brain functions.

Are you ever going to realize you are being set up? Or are you going to be an Uncle Tom forever because 80% of you can agree on it? That number is really scary! Wake up black men….

I believe in loving who you please only when your mentality healthy enough to do so = black men have been placed back in the house as to not harm their slave masters plan of control, you are not mentally healthy enough to do so…media got you good!

By the way, the reason they wanted the men and woman to remain separate was because after much research it was discovered that together that are extremely TOOO powerful to control.

They notice the black woman would motivate her man to stand up to his masters; she will stand by his side for their people – the only way they would control the black slaves was to keep the “loud, ghetto, un- submissive” woman way from him. Take way the woman and he will do as he is told>(example-go out into the world - work and make money and give it back to him and his daughters/sons as long as it wasn't each other); thus for the advancement of black people was stagnated by control! NEW FLASH (I didn’t think so!)

So keep on talking brother, white men are still calling you a n*gger because in his eyes, if you STILL fall for the banana in the tail pipe (after 200 years) and then truly in your heart affirm it; they have no other name to call you.

Or is it a wonder why they are promoting the black woman above you????? Get a clue and stop downing us for lack of self respect and worldly knowledge!

BLACK WOMEN RESPECT MEN WHO RESPECT THEMSELVES - BLACK WHITE OR PURPLE!
Comment by Siren on September 29, 2010 at 5:56pm
I don't think it applies to all and I dismissed the loud & ghetto part (I know it is not the rule) but I do not plenty of women that are not loud and ghetto but are stank towards men...even men that don't deserve it...I don't thik this blog is saying to be this way with all men but with a man that is deserving of the treatment...
Comment by Beautifulone on September 29, 2010 at 5:59pm
Maybe men need to quit chasing ass and tits and look for substance then they don’t have to continuously run over the same women with a bad attitude...
Substance people Substance!!!!!
Comment by Beautifulone on September 29, 2010 at 6:36pm
That is the plan...they want us to reject each other naturally so they no longer have to take the blame! Know your purpose....
Comment by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on September 29, 2010 at 9:20pm
why does it always have to be blk women?? hell i know and have a lot of blk women in my family so why is it just generalizing all blk women. i dont agree with this s***. there r women of other races that do this s***. if i get a blk woman thats doing something i dont like, i will address the situation or find another blk woman that does not do it. im so sick of this bs. stopping making it seem like all blk women or bitter, negative,b****** that nobody would want to be around.
Comment by Mizz Bozz on September 29, 2010 at 9:58pm
Thank you for reading and commenting on my first blog for BallerAlert.com. I appreciate the all the comments both good and bad.

I titled the blog the way I did because I AM A BLACK WOMAN and I can only speak for what I know. I know a lot of you don't agree with that but this is a free country and I have a right to freedom of speech as do all of you.

I appreciate all the feedback and I hope you'll read my next blog as well

:-)
Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on September 30, 2010 at 8:05am
@Mizz Bozz, are some comments considered 'bad' because they don't agree with your 'attempt' at sharing your 'message'?

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