Why Won't Black Women Submit To Their Man?



Ladies, why do you always have to prove how strong you are to your men? Why do you always have to make the man feel less than a man by the way you talk to him? Why can't there ever be a time where he asks you to do something and you do it with no hesitation or complaints?

These are some of the questions that run through my mind on a daily basis. Especially when I talk to my male friends about why they don't date black women.

About 95% of my male friends are black and about 80% of them don't date black women. When I asked them why they said black women are too loud, ghetto and don't know how to submit to their man...

I completely agree...

When watching my friend's relationships and watching some of my friends I can attest to all of what was said that day. If you would just sit down and listen to what your man needed and stopped trying to wear the pants all the time then you wouldn't be lonely come 'Cuffin Season'

I'm going to compile a list of suggestions and you can do as you please with the information.

1. SHUT UP!
Your man does not want to hear talking ALL the time. Some things are just best left unsaid.

2. STOP NAGGING!
The more you nit pick at him the farther away you push him.

3. SERVICE HIM
I mean this in the most respectful way...you need to get on your knees and do the deed. A well sucked man is a happy man.

Now I know this is a very short list but I can't give you everything. Some things you have to learn on your own.

I am not saying that you should take it ALL the way back to the 1940s but it never hurts to take it there sometimes.

This is coming from a woman of experience.

@MizzBozz88

Views: 1024

Tags: men, relationship, submit

Comment by Beautifulone on September 30, 2010 at 4:46pm
took me 60 seconds to figure out what chirren was. OK children got it (lmao)
Comment by Busy Signal aka $picey on September 30, 2010 at 4:50pm
LMAO @ JM & BO
Comment by ChellBellz on October 1, 2010 at 10:44am
I agree CCDreamer, I'm good to my man because he is good to me. I don't nag him because he never gives me a reason to, and even when he does, its not nagging, it's a simple conversation about the issue, we solve it, case closed. I do however think that it's important to let a man be a man in the relationship.
Comment by Beautifulone on October 1, 2010 at 4:44pm
Like birds of a feather...
Comment by Ms. KissyFace on October 1, 2010 at 4:48pm
"About 95% of my male friends are black and about 80% of them don't date black women. When I asked them why they said black women are too loud, ghetto and don't know how to submit to their man..." = Not good enough?
Thats a cop out, an excuse for their Willie Lynch mindset. :(
I have no issues with interacial dating but I do have a problem with self loathing. I NEVER hear this from any other race about the opposite sex. If all the women that you are around are " too ghetto, too loud" then for some reason that is what you are attracting. Like attracts Like

Comment

You need to be a member of Baller Alert.com to add comments!

Join Baller Alert.com

\\\\\\\ADVERTISEMENT

Connect


BallerBoards

Street harassment

Started by Tone in Talk Ish. Last reply by SoLuscious 1 hour ago. 1 Reply

is this a real issue for anyone of you

No, I don't want sex...

Started by Formally Known as Ginger in Talk Ish. Last reply by Formally Known as Ginger 2 hours ago. 5 Replies

Am I the only person that still believes that "chillin'" means talking, watching TV, etc not f--cking? Like these days I don't even feel comfortable inviting a guy over to my crib for fear he will…Continue

Florida Woman Caught Stealing Liquor by Hiding It Up Her You-Know-What

Started by RubyWoo in Talk Ish. Last reply by LemonDropPop 6 hours ago. 6 Replies

A Florida woman was caught on…Continue

Meet Koi Knowles, Mathew Knowles' Child with Latest Baby Mama

Started by RubyWoo in Talk Ish. Last reply by LemonDropPop 7 hours ago. 3 Replies

After a DNA test proved that…Continue

Latest Activity

V commented on Eleven8's blog post Groupie Tales - Want To Know What 15-Minute Ratchet Sex Is Like?
"DEAD @ 'Be safe out there'. Witcha dumb, broke azz...LMAOOOOO"
14 minutes ago
Eleven8's 5 blog posts were featured
36 minutes ago
Eleven8 posted blog posts
36 minutes ago
Choco commented on Milagros Reyes's blog post The Eyes Are The Window To The Soul By: @milagreee
"I think more folks would enjoy the article if it wasn't written so biased.  I understand…"
1 hour ago
Choco commented on Eleven8's blog post Bad Girls Club Star Mehgan James Joins Basketball Wives LA
"Oh boy!  I guess making money off acting a fool is still the "IN" thing to do."
1 hour ago
Sean commented on Eleven8's blog post Tiny Talks To ABC News About Her Eye Surgery
"Right @MS! She does only have one pair. That's my point. Women have one pair of boobs,one…"
1 hour ago
SoLuscious replied to Tone's discussion Street harassment
"If you are referring to that video that was circulating of the woman walking thru the streets of…"
1 hour ago
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! commented on Peachkyss's blog post Ballerific Fashion: Rihanna Wearing Tom Ford Spring 2015 Gown and Pink Platform Heels For amfAR Inspiration Gala
"I agree with Peachkyss...she can do no wrong in the fashion dept. to me. She OWNS her looks..."
2 hours ago
MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! commented on Eleven8's blog post Tiny Talks To ABC News About Her Eye Surgery
"I personally wouldn't associate all changes with low self-esteem...I know these are her EYES…"
2 hours ago
Sean commented on Eleven8's blog post Tiny Talks To ABC News About Her Eye Surgery
"@Sandy now you know damn well if your man came home and said " I got some new eye color, do…"
2 hours ago
Formally Known as Ginger replied to Formally Known as Ginger's discussion No, I don't want sex...
"So true "
2 hours ago
TheLadyJosephine commented on Peachkyss's blog post Baller Alert's Hit or Miss: Jewel Wearing Lorena Sarbu Embellished Gown For Elton John AIDS Foundation’s 13th Annual An Enduring Vision Benefit
"LOLOL...it's looks like a million spiders on that dress. Gives me the willies."
3 hours ago

© 2014   Created by Baller Alert.

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service

Offline

Live Video