Why Won't Black Women Submit To Their Man?



Ladies, why do you always have to prove how strong you are to your men? Why do you always have to make the man feel less than a man by the way you talk to him? Why can't there ever be a time where he asks you to do something and you do it with no hesitation or complaints?

These are some of the questions that run through my mind on a daily basis. Especially when I talk to my male friends about why they don't date black women.

About 95% of my male friends are black and about 80% of them don't date black women. When I asked them why they said black women are too loud, ghetto and don't know how to submit to their man...

I completely agree...

When watching my friend's relationships and watching some of my friends I can attest to all of what was said that day. If you would just sit down and listen to what your man needed and stopped trying to wear the pants all the time then you wouldn't be lonely come 'Cuffin Season'

I'm going to compile a list of suggestions and you can do as you please with the information.

1. SHUT UP!
Your man does not want to hear talking ALL the time. Some things are just best left unsaid.

2. STOP NAGGING!
The more you nit pick at him the farther away you push him.

3. SERVICE HIM
I mean this in the most respectful way...you need to get on your knees and do the deed. A well sucked man is a happy man.

Now I know this is a very short list but I can't give you everything. Some things you have to learn on your own.

I am not saying that you should take it ALL the way back to the 1940s but it never hurts to take it there sometimes.

This is coming from a woman of experience.

@MizzBozz88

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Tags: men, relationship, submit

Comment by Beautifulone on September 30, 2010 at 4:46pm
took me 60 seconds to figure out what chirren was. OK children got it (lmao)
Comment by Busy Signal aka $picey on September 30, 2010 at 4:50pm
LMAO @ JM & BO
Comment by ChellBellz on October 1, 2010 at 10:44am
I agree CCDreamer, I'm good to my man because he is good to me. I don't nag him because he never gives me a reason to, and even when he does, its not nagging, it's a simple conversation about the issue, we solve it, case closed. I do however think that it's important to let a man be a man in the relationship.
Comment by Beautifulone on October 1, 2010 at 4:44pm
Like birds of a feather...
Comment by Ms. KissyFace on October 1, 2010 at 4:48pm
"About 95% of my male friends are black and about 80% of them don't date black women. When I asked them why they said black women are too loud, ghetto and don't know how to submit to their man..." = Not good enough?
Thats a cop out, an excuse for their Willie Lynch mindset. :(
I have no issues with interacial dating but I do have a problem with self loathing. I NEVER hear this from any other race about the opposite sex. If all the women that you are around are " too ghetto, too loud" then for some reason that is what you are attracting. Like attracts Like

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