WOMEN REALLY WANT MEN TO LIE.... (FROM A MALE'S PERSPECTIVE)



This blog is a spinoff of the blog 10 Reasons Why Your Baller Won't Call You Back. This blog was not written by the same man but another guy that read the blog and the comments. He is dedicating it to TopShelfChick especially.

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I just got off the phone with a heated convo with my ex and the movie "A Few Good Men" came to mind...I say that cause there's a famous line in that movie where Tom Cruise's character is cross-examining Jack Nicholson in court and Tom says I'm entitled to the truth..and Jack goes "You want the truth the real truth" and Tom says "Yes I deserve it" and you get the famous line "You can't handle the truth".

See I had an epiphany and women really want the lies, or if not want the lies, a lot can not handle the truth. Most people go thru their days with this nice little perception of reality and self belief but if we were to really get the truth it would destroy us. Allow me to go deeper

-You know if your fat...you know for a fact that your not still that same size 5 you were in high school...so when you ask your man if you've put on some pounds and he's honest--you get pissed and call him insensitive and start crying and basically get dramatic. But you knew that before he asked. You know that you can't still fit that high school cheerleader outfit so when your man does what you ask for and tells the truth he gets in trouble so WE LIE

-On that first date you say you want us to be honest about what we want---but honestly if a guy were to sit at that table and say "Well I need some p**** when I want, and some head when I need and if something grows from there then fine if not hey at least I got a nut or two"--95% of women reading this are going to walk away from this guy after throwing their drink on him--so instead we hit with A LIE and say something like "Well I just want to get to know you better and see where things can go"

-Your a hoe and the only reason we are hollering at you is we heard you suck good d***---for some women this is the truth...some guys that you think really really like you have this opinion of you--but we can't say this cause we won't get what we are after...so we LIE--we tell you whatever we think will get you to open your mouth and do

Taking a break from examples for a second...your female friends are the leading causes for you not getting the truth. So many times rather than taking a situation to a man you go to your female friends who keep that whole false sense of reality going. Unlike women--men go to women to find out what they need to do to get with you--we go to our sisters, cousins, female friends and they tell us the lies to tell you to get what we want. Now back to thoughts

A man is pretty basic and transparent. Really all guys are the same..the only thing that separates guys are race/bank account/height/weight.

We all know that if we keep it real we are in for drama.

Every woman reading this probably thinks her p**** is the bomb. The truth your probably not as good as you think you are. Your argument "My Man loves it" or "I've never had a complaint" once again this is a lie we tell you. Your man probably doesn't love what you do in bed (he's probably bored by it) what he loves is the convenience or ease of getting your p**** but if he were to say in bed "I love how convenient your p**** is" vs "I love your p****" he probably aint gonna get that any more...as far as never havin a complaint that's another LIE (albiet unspoken). While it's in a woman's nature to want to discuss s*** men don't like talking about anything that will bring added stress into our lives. So rather than tell you about your flaws we just laugh and complain to our friends.

Thoughts?

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Tags: lie, men, relationships, women

Comment by TopShelfChick on August 20, 2009 at 5:33pm
SInce this is dedicated to me. Let me stop you. I don't want to be lied to. For what, Maybe I'm looking for that 5% that have a different truth. See you not getting what YOU want is none of my concern. My concern is avoiding the same unnecessary drama you say you are.

Fact, if all you want is to f*** me or get head, If I know that up front and still continue to involve myself with you, that's on me. I call this personal accountability.

Fact, if all I want is somebody to get me off on occasion or your money or whatever then perhaps I'd be inclined to play your game cause fair exchange is no robbery.

The person that has it f***** up is you. You lie to get what you want but I'm the fool cause when told the truth I don't do what's best for YOU? No that's called being selfish somebody will give you what you want with the truth. Problem is, that's not the one YOU want. So I fail to see how you not getting what you want equates to women wanting to be lied to.

Men just want all the benefits and none of the responsibility
Comment by Baller Alert on August 20, 2009 at 5:38pm
@cookiepie @babydoll

His response:
@babydoll @cookiepie

The difference is when talking about d*** size we ultimately don't give a f*** cause we got our nut.
Comment by LMS on August 20, 2009 at 5:39pm
Well I'm not telling lies. BF#2 I gotta man & ur just present to do all the things my man won't do I.e. Tossing my salad! Gucci!

Or women should just flat out say "look nigga I'm pretty sure u heard I give the bomb ass head, u aren't cute, so u know what this is about you getting what you want & me getting my bills paid"

Now imagine if a woman said those things. I think a ton of these dudes forget about interfacial dating or f******.
Comment by Siren on August 20, 2009 at 6:00pm
I agree with you Boss MOST PEOPLE can't handle the truth!!!! As for the truth about weight if you know you are putting on pounds you do not need to ask your man, YOU ALREADY KNOW and if you ask and he tells you the truth and you get mad you need to grow up. AS FOR some of the other examples if you can't be HONEST WITH YOURSELF most likely you won't be able to handle the truth from anyone else.
Comment by Babydoll on August 20, 2009 at 6:03pm
I know he is not responding to me; but lets stop the b******* for just a second. You won't care if a jumpoff/ho said ur d*** ain't s***, but if a chick you are feeling said this, u would be in your feelings for days. I don't care how good that nut was, u gonna be hurt later..... So stop that!lol
Comment by Butter_Cup on August 20, 2009 at 6:07pm
Ha Ha Ha!!! Someone give this man a bag please, TopShelfChick has this "ass" by the balls!!! Wow this is great! Keep it coming at him ladies!
Comment by Emerald on August 20, 2009 at 6:23pm
Dayuuum!


I like the last one! Ok if that's the case then what makes the push all that and not just a mere convenience????
Comment by Emerald on August 20, 2009 at 6:27pm
I concur however I think it should be changed to Boys...


"Men just want all the benefits and none of the responsibility"- TopShelfChick
Comment by Savoir Faire on August 20, 2009 at 6:53pm
Love your posts Boss/MadamBA, you're right, this goes both ways! Lot's of men are such good liars cuz they can't handle the truth themselves. I can't say women are guilty of liking to hear them more, cuz half the time WE KNOW we're being lied to, men haven't a clue. Or maybe they would rather believe the lie than think that their d*** is not dipped in gold no matter how low it hangs, how good they look or how much money they have. The sad fact is men don't have to lie, they're just too fragile in running the risk of being rejected.
Comment by Butter_Cup on August 20, 2009 at 6:53pm
First of all @ the dude How old are you? And how long have you and your homeboy been on the DL? Clearly you hate women. A woman is a angel from above who the f*** are you. P**** is Power. When dope wont sale p**** will. Good p****, bad p****, long p****, wide p****!! Niggas get dressed up to go to the club just to look at p****. Niggas buy p****! Let men get a real man in put on the matter and get back with you. Keep the children off the blog!

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