WOMEN REALLY WANT MEN TO LIE.... (FROM A MALE'S PERSPECTIVE)



This blog is a spinoff of the blog 10 Reasons Why Your Baller Won't Call You Back. This blog was not written by the same man but another guy that read the blog and the comments. He is dedicating it to TopShelfChick especially.

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I just got off the phone with a heated convo with my ex and the movie "A Few Good Men" came to mind...I say that cause there's a famous line in that movie where Tom Cruise's character is cross-examining Jack Nicholson in court and Tom says I'm entitled to the truth..and Jack goes "You want the truth the real truth" and Tom says "Yes I deserve it" and you get the famous line "You can't handle the truth".

See I had an epiphany and women really want the lies, or if not want the lies, a lot can not handle the truth. Most people go thru their days with this nice little perception of reality and self belief but if we were to really get the truth it would destroy us. Allow me to go deeper

-You know if your fat...you know for a fact that your not still that same size 5 you were in high school...so when you ask your man if you've put on some pounds and he's honest--you get pissed and call him insensitive and start crying and basically get dramatic. But you knew that before he asked. You know that you can't still fit that high school cheerleader outfit so when your man does what you ask for and tells the truth he gets in trouble so WE LIE

-On that first date you say you want us to be honest about what we want---but honestly if a guy were to sit at that table and say "Well I need some p**** when I want, and some head when I need and if something grows from there then fine if not hey at least I got a nut or two"--95% of women reading this are going to walk away from this guy after throwing their drink on him--so instead we hit with A LIE and say something like "Well I just want to get to know you better and see where things can go"

-Your a hoe and the only reason we are hollering at you is we heard you suck good d***---for some women this is the truth...some guys that you think really really like you have this opinion of you--but we can't say this cause we won't get what we are after...so we LIE--we tell you whatever we think will get you to open your mouth and do

Taking a break from examples for a second...your female friends are the leading causes for you not getting the truth. So many times rather than taking a situation to a man you go to your female friends who keep that whole false sense of reality going. Unlike women--men go to women to find out what they need to do to get with you--we go to our sisters, cousins, female friends and they tell us the lies to tell you to get what we want. Now back to thoughts

A man is pretty basic and transparent. Really all guys are the same..the only thing that separates guys are race/bank account/height/weight.

We all know that if we keep it real we are in for drama.

Every woman reading this probably thinks her p**** is the bomb. The truth your probably not as good as you think you are. Your argument "My Man loves it" or "I've never had a complaint" once again this is a lie we tell you. Your man probably doesn't love what you do in bed (he's probably bored by it) what he loves is the convenience or ease of getting your p**** but if he were to say in bed "I love how convenient your p**** is" vs "I love your p****" he probably aint gonna get that any more...as far as never havin a complaint that's another LIE (albiet unspoken). While it's in a woman's nature to want to discuss s*** men don't like talking about anything that will bring added stress into our lives. So rather than tell you about your flaws we just laugh and complain to our friends.

Thoughts?

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Tags: lie, men, relationships, women

Comment by Khai G. on August 21, 2009 at 12:11pm
That picture screams "I was working late!" LMAO! Does anyone remember that from Two Can Play that Game with a man's #1 excuse for cheating. LOL!

Now to get serious...this article is one of those topics that's so hard for people. We all want honesty but it can be a brutal B. But it's always best in the end...after the pain of course.
Comment by kadydid on August 21, 2009 at 2:20pm
I say tell them the truth. I make sure I let it all be known.
Men can dish it but can they take it. I have men that can still remember things that I said to them ten years ago.

I was messing with two guys at the same time. I told one that the others d*** was bigger. Ten years later he still remembers what I said to him. He found me about a year ago and he talks about this at least once a week.

Did I hurt his feelings? Yeah but so what. Don't think that I can't take the truth. I can, but if you tell me the truth you better be prepared.
Comment by Stephbaby on August 21, 2009 at 3:07pm
LMAO I would have to agree with Sheli!
Comment by cari ennis on August 21, 2009 at 3:30pm
Well. the same goes for women..... we don't always think our man's peen action is the best thing going, but it's convenient.......
Comment by Ms. KissyFace on August 22, 2009 at 12:17pm
To the author of this post. Birds of a feather flock together. If you are a liar that means you like to be lied to and vice versa. You having to run game to get sex means you ain't smooth at all. Most of us have run across a man that let you know from up front that he wanted sex but he was SMOOTH about it and the sex was bangin. The poster lies because he is immature,insecure,lacks self confidence and is manipulative. One of the most honest men I have ever met was my father. He would tell me the truth wether I liked it or not. Being honest really helps cut the b******* out of life. Hitting someone over the head with truth and giving it to them in a way that wont hurt them or hurt them much is something that most adults should know how to do.

With me there is no faking orgasms that stopped a long time ago. Asking questions that I might not want the answer to stopped then too. Will I tell my significant other that he is only a 7 in bed even after several years of coaching? No. Some things are on a NEED TO KNOW BASIS and that is not one of them. Do I care if I was the best he ever had? Hell no. I wont ask either.
Comment by Mya on August 24, 2009 at 9:31pm
Whatever! I want the gut wrenching, tingling feeling in the back of my throat, jaw droppin truth. I effin hate liars! Men or women. It gets me in trouble sometimes, but I never have to remember a story or front about ish. When my head hits my pillow at night I'm good.

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