Comment by babydoll on December 9, 2008 at 10:10am

GREAT POST!
Very insightful, you're right, I would MUCH prefer loyalty to faithfulness; however, in this era of the AIDS epidemic, you have to have both. Perhaps it is this school of thought which exposed so many married women to HIV and AIDS, perhaps not. Perhaps we just have a "new breed" of men who simply don't know how to be loyal... men who don't realize that loyalty includes protecting the home, protecting the wife, not only emotionally, but physically.

Comment by LMS on December 9, 2008 at 10:33am

I agree!!! BD you are so right!!

Comment by CLEM on December 9, 2008 at 11:25am

Some things in life are not made for sharing and one of them would be is my partner and if he felt he was made for sharing, then I'm afraid we would not be in a relationship.
Just like what BD has mentioned in this era of AIDS, having intercourse with someone else and potentially transferring the disease to your love one is absolutely not worth it.

Comment by iCandy on December 9, 2008 at 12:00pm

very interesting read...ironically I was thinking about this the other day. Not being a mistress, but having a mister of your own on the side, but at the end of the day it is totally not worth it!

Comment by LaLa_Mz_LA on December 9, 2008 at 12:01pm

I'd kill my husband if he cheated and got another preg or burned me...that's a wrap. Everybodies going down! I aint the one, and he knows it. It's funny how a man is celebrated for steppin out but if a woman does it she's every biach in the book. It BS like this that makes them think its ok. It's called give and take it's not one sided, if I aint in the mood its probably because I'm tired from working a 12 hour day then coming home and having to cook and clean, if you want some azz help a sister out and maybe I'll be in the mood. The world does not revolve around them.....Sorry I just had to get this off my chest. I'm a little hormonal.

Comment by MRSBIG on December 9, 2008 at 12:15pm

Totally get it ladies, this is a new time with new diseases and yes, there are ballers out there being sloppy, but those who are playing it safe, these are the ones who have the same mistress for years, she sees no one else because she is not on the scene, and he has his wife under his thumb, you couldnt even break that triangle with a weapon of mass destruction if you wanted to, rare, but its true.

Comment by MRSBIG on December 9, 2008 at 12:20pm

let me tell you why she sees no one else: it has to do with more than just love because there are women in love still sexing other men--something happens to a woman when she's with a baller or wealthy man, it's like any other man less than that is like trolling through the gutter, being with a the RIGHT baller and I aint talkin bout these chumps running around shooting themselves in the leg, the RIGHT baller changes a woman's self concept, she cant even be the in the same room with a civilian man, this is very dangerous because it isolates her until the next baller comes preferably more money, and who knows when that'll happen

Comment by Baller Alert on December 9, 2008 at 12:33pm

We are all adults here...we know it's a risk of disease when you f*** period. You can trust no one but yourself. Putting that aside I had to read this blog three times...this was a good one. I totally get it...

Comment by His_Wife on December 9, 2008 at 4:27pm

You can get both loyalty and faithfulness when you both love and respect each other. Woman play that blind eye too many times for a man's own selfish desires. If we both can't have someone on the side then none of us will.

Comment by MRSBIG on December 9, 2008 at 4:33pm

People can love and respect someone and still cheat it has more to do with the cheater's character than their affection for the other person, if it was that black and white cheating would have gone out with the dinosaurs lol

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