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Your Baller Wants To Keep It Undercover, What Do You Do?
Let's assume you and your baller are seemingly in an exclusive relationship. He doesn't have any wives or girlfriends on the side, he seems to be faithful to you, but he wants to keep your relationship undercover.
First thing that may come to mind is why? Well, let's go over a few reasons an innocent man would keep his relationship on the down low...
1) He has to protect his image: If your baller's job requires he be a heart throb and appear single at all times, it's probably best that he keeps your relationship on the low. It can be very damaging if he appears to have a girlfriend too early in his career. Be patient, as long as he's faithful to you, all is well!
2) He wants his personal life out of the limelight: No attention means no negative attention. It's quite possible your baller values what you have so much that he doesn't want it spoiled by the media or jealous groupies. He's using this as a way to protect something he holds dear and preserve it from harsh outsiders. Best thing to do is respect his wishes, keep it on the hush. It's for the best.
3) Someone doesn't approve: Every so often a family member doesn't approve of the relationship and this can cause your Baller to keep things very quiet regarding you two. He's using this as another technique to protect your relationship but is also using this lie as a cop out. If you're faced with this situation you should talk your baller into growing some balls, at the very least letting his family know that he is serious about you and that he is grown and can make his own choices/mistakes.
4) He's just not that into you: Here is the part that every woman dreads. If your Baller doesn't want people to know he's with you, it's because he probably doesn't want to be with you. Maybe he's a nice guy looking to spare your feelings. If you ever get the feeling that this scenario might pertain to you, it's best to talk with your Baller and let him know the deal. Let him know that if he goes, you'll be A-OK...but penis pics may possibly end up on the internet. :)
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Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on January 14, 2011 at 10:50am -
Meh, #1 would be the only one I'd respect. That has to do with how he makes his living. Any of the other reasons would have me heading for the door. I. Do. Not. Sneak. For anyone! So if he has any of those other issues, they're his and good luck in therapy working them out.
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Comment by Neana D on January 14, 2011 at 1:28pm -
I agree with CCDreamer other than #1 RUN ladies!!!! as fast as you can
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Comment by LALA Vasquez on January 14, 2011 at 1:56pm -
I also agree!
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Comment by Miss B on January 15, 2011 at 5:28pm -
Co-Sign as well!!!
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Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on January 15, 2011 at 5:51pm -
LOL @ but penis pics may possibly end up on the internet. :)
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Comment by Cher on January 16, 2011 at 4:11pm -
Yep if it's business related i can understand...But for any other reason no way should u accept being kept a secret?!
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Comment by isntshelovely25 on January 16, 2011 at 4:32pm -
I can understand keeping personal life out of the limelight--jay & bey do a great job of that. We know they're married and that's virtually it. But keeping his girl on the complete hush tip would mean the baller doesnt want her and/or he doesnt want other chicks to know about her. If a man really loves his girl, he wouldnt hide her. It aint worth all that.
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Comment by LMarie on February 23, 2013 at 3:41pm -
Oh no.... He'd get shown the door. I just had to do my baller like this. Still contemplating on releasing his d*** pics!
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Comment by HisADDiction on February 23, 2013 at 4:40pm -
You see how not knowing abt a girl did for Emily B and Fab. Once ppl do find out abt you they're gonna deem you as irrelevant especial if you was in a long relationship. I would respect 2 before I respect 1. He would rather be known as some single playboy gigalo then a good guy w/ a girlfriend for image?! Scratches my head on that one. Depending on what type of baller he is, he doesn't have to worry abt females keeping his image. If he's an athlete he could give a hell abt what these bishes talking abt. His name isn't French Montana or Trey Songz. He need to worry abt keeping himself in excellent shape and keeping his performance up to par. On the S/N this is a good blog tho. I can see all scenarios coming out into play.
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Comment by Miss Good on February 23, 2013 at 8:18pm -
@LMarie release them!!! Lol
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