YOUR FRIEND HAS A BAD REP...WHAT DO YOU DO?

Comment by Mizz Fed Up on June 21, 2009 at 3:43pm

My best friend of 23 years is a, and I hate to say this cause I love her, big hoe. My father said when we were ten yrs old she was going to have a kids young and sleep with the whole neighborhood she did, so he kept me away from her for a minute. My dude didn't even like her when we first got together.I know and understand why she's the way she is. I will always hold her down no matter what. I've even had things said about me dealing with her, but long story short if she a damn good friend, who cares what others say.

Comment by desiree on June 21, 2009 at 3:53pm

yea at first when i read this i was leaning towards probably not being a friend anymore but now just like u said, 'if she's a great friend and u have fun wth that person' i would still be friends with that 'hoe'...but i would just pray that she will change her ways b/c of saftey issues

Comment by Sheli on June 21, 2009 at 4:40pm

I actually don't have a problem it, I've had homegirls that were straight up WHORES and I loved them for it. I can't dictate how someone lives there life, if you love someone you love all of them not just the parts that are acceptable to you or the public . People will talk and judge regardless of how you choose to live (good or bad), so if being promiscuous made them happy then I say "Set It Out thats your coochie not mine"

Comment by blackback on June 21, 2009 at 5:13pm

maybe this is off subject but...I have learned that many men LIE as well! That's ridiculous! Men will actually say that something happened between them and a female and mess up your rep before you can even get started with OTHER men! So I think that you should ask BALLERS how they would feel about a girl that they like and they find out that she had a "bad rep"? lol

Comment by Cookie Pie on June 21, 2009 at 5:23pm

All being a hoe really means in most cases is that your friend probably thinks like a dude . I have always hated double standards and as long as my friend isn't the type who would do something totally disrespectful like sleep with my husband , I would remain friends with her ( hell I have some friend just like this now ) ..... as long as she's a good friend to me , we're cool !

Comment by Ms_Foxx on June 21, 2009 at 6:04pm

i dont have a problem with that, we all grown so we can do whoever we like. I don't judge people and i hate when others do. Whoever they bang is their business. but i do think its nasty if they're not using protection.

Comment by Hotter on June 21, 2009 at 8:46pm

AS long as my friends dont try and involve me in their "whore activities" we can be friends all day long. Instead of judging them why not talk to them to find out the issue? And as you stated as long as they are a good friend what difference does it make?

Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on June 21, 2009 at 9:25pm

If it was true and I knew it for a fact, I would distance myself from her. If it was just rumors, then I would stick by her and tell her to ride out the storm. Rumours will pass.

Comment by Ph@tty on June 22, 2009 at 12:00am

Was it a certifiable ho? Or was it just hater dudes talkin tryin to pump their stats up? But all in all its a trick question cuz most hos have that extremely insecure stuff goin on, and that is something I just don't do. But if they were cool yeah I would kick it with em. I had a friend in college was with a lot of males and some females, but I conducted myself the complete opposite. I was never called a ho or approached as a ho because of her.

Comment by Boss/MadamBA on June 22, 2009 at 7:30am

What defines a hoe? Just because you slept with a few men?

Add a Comment

• First
• Previous
• Next
• Last