Are you wearing a deterrent?

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Permalink Reply by PrincessLola on July 23, 2008 at 2:15am

I have an eternity band that I wear on my ring finger but thats because thats the only finger it fits on and it's kinda sentimental. I've been told that I shouldnt wear any rings on that finger because I may block my blessing, but I believe that if a man is interested he'll ask questions. You shoulve just said "Hello, how are you today" to that guy if you saw him eye the ring. It probably scrambled his brain.lol But to answer your question, if it fits on the other hand, switch it girl to avoid confusion!

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Permalink Reply by Raegan on July 23, 2008 at 2:21am

I wore one occasionally as an experiment and it didn't seem to keep the losers away. It became more of a magnet especially because it was on my right hand, I guess they thought they still had a chance.

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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on July 23, 2008 at 2:22am

Girl, if it fits? He was fine enough to make me resize it if necessary, lol. I think I am going to put it away though for now. I think that I need to get better at telling the losers to "fuck off" and then I'll be more comfortable with it on my right hand.

PrincessLola said:

I have an eternity band that I wear on my ring finger but thats because thats the only finger it fits on and it's kinda sentimental. I've been told that I shouldnt wear any rings on that finger because I may block my blessing, but I believe that if a man is interested he'll ask questions. You shoulve just said "Hello, how are you today" to that guy if you saw him eye the ring. It probably scrambled his brain.lol But to answer your question, if it fits on the other hand, switch it girl to avoid confusion!

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Permalink Reply by PrincessLola on July 23, 2008 at 2:40am

I think that I need to get better at telling the losers to "fuck off"...Well thats also an idea.lol Truth be told most guys dont care about a ring anyway. They're still gonna try their hand

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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on July 23, 2008 at 9:06am

Hmm maybe that's true, perhaps it's the whole forbidden fruit thing. I mean they still try me but, I have been wearing it so long I never stopped to consider whether it was more or less than before. Good point.

Raegan said:

I wore one occasionally as an experiment and it didn't seem to keep the losers away. It became more of a magnet especially because it was on my right hand, I guess they thought they still had a chance.

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on July 23, 2008 at 10:55am

It seems (for me at least ) that when I took my ring off that less people approach me , when I used to wear it men would ask me if I was married , then tell me they don't care !!! I think men always want a challenge and they love flirting with married women ( most men anyway )! That guy was probably just afraid to approach you but you might see him again !!!

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Permalink Reply by Upgrade_Me on July 23, 2008 at 11:19am

I haven't ever worn a ring to deter losers. I just try not to go places where I think losers are gonna be, but that's hard to do because they are like roaches. I think you should stop wearing it for a little while and see how it goes. If it's not too bad or is the same, then I would switch it permanently.

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Permalink Reply by VaDyme757 on July 23, 2008 at 9:43pm

I'm not going to lie. I got a set from the Icing and I carry them in my purse so when I see a scrub approaching I stick my hand in my bag and put them on. Then I show them and they ask who the hell married me and put that big ass ring on my finger, a football player? lol

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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on July 23, 2008 at 9:49pm

I hope I do. He got off on the third floor so maybe he works there. Wish me luck lol.

Cookie Pie said:

It seems (for me at least ) that when I took my ring off that less people approach me , when I used to wear it men would ask me if I was married , then tell me they don't care !!! I think men always want a challenge and they love flirting with married women ( most men anyway )! That guy was probably just afraid to approach you but you might see him again !!!

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Permalink Reply by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on July 23, 2008 at 9:51pm

lmao cute, very cute. So basically just keep the scrub ring on reserve, got it.

VaDyme757 said:

I'm not going to lie. I got a set from the Icing and I carry them in my purse so when I see a scrub approaching I stick my hand in my bag and put them on. Then I show them and they ask who the hell married me and put that big ass ring on my finger, a football player? lol

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